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BPD daughter moving out of parents house - a good thing. Haven't confirmed it yet but supposedly happening today. Recently discovered she's been a druggie for probably 20 years, guess I've been on the koolaid. I knew "things" didn't add up here and there just thought - well, deceived myself. Now...

There is power in learning how to erect proper boundaries AND learning the emotional skill of detaching with love. God is good to be teaching me these skills. I'm not "there" yet but wanted to share with everyone that God does not require us to sacrifice our well-being on the altar of biological...

Hi Kinsey. How's it going with you? I continue to stand in faith, by grace. IT has gotten way worse.Dad's condition has basically plateau'd meaning he's probably not going to get back to normal. He's in a nursing home now close to his home. Brother, BPD daughter and my mom are able to visit him...

Update: this past week has been dealing with my Dad (91) had a stroke and he's in rehab, lots of interaction between family members who don't really have much relationship. During all this my mom's pushing for reconciliation with BPD daughter. I have been taking it very very slow, we actually...

Thank you. Confirms some other things I'm thinking. I'm letting go expectations and just praying about being as loving as I can be without getting "tripped up" by confusing messages. Baby steps. Thanks bunches, appreciate your note. Uphill climb indeed.

Wow Kinsey just read your first long post, thank you for sharing all that. Sometimes God puts us through pain and trials and difficult things so we'll draw closer to Him. I know that for me, I have been going through my life's hardest times for 3 years plus. I keep hoping to have learned...

Awesome response Kinsey, yes you have been very helpful yes! I, too, can see Jesus loving her (in spite of) as He loves me (in spite of) and that I need to express grace in spite of my massive fear of her and the unpredictability of her behavior. My husband is more detached than me and he is...

Be blessed and welcome! Greetings from the mountains of North Carolina :)

Just wanted to say hi :wave: and introduce myself, I am from the Blue Ridge Mountains of Western NC and became a child of God redeemed by the blood of Jesus late in life, in my 40s. My husband and I were rescued by the Lord at almost the same time and now have been walking with Him almost 20...

I am 64, my daughter is 43 and she has not been diagnosed but fits many descriptions of this disorder. I finally got some peace by reading "Stop Walking on Eggshells" which helped explain much of the confusion and pain. She has no idea she is sick, far as I know. We have been estranged for one...

wow, praise be to God for your deliverance! Perhaps not the "usual" path but certainly within reach for all ;) Glory to God in the highest, may you continue to grow in His marvelous grace.

Hello to all Newbies, this is my first post too! Bless you all in Jesus name!