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    Scared

    I will pray for you not to be scared I am sure that God is sitting in the seat right beside you. He is the driving. Goodluck.
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    My fiance allows his children to bring home thier mates for sex

    At the age the of 14 rules are needed to show love and caring to the child. If the child does what they want to do. A slip in the wrong direction of the choices of friends can influence the choices on in or out of jail.
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    Legal Seperation

    Right now I am waiting for my daughter to come to me. I am giving her the space that she wants so now it is letting God do the rest of the work.
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    Husband walked out & filed for divorce - want restoration he refuses

    I am going through the samething that you are going through and I am the husband. My wife wants total control. I will not give that to her. I have started my own workout program and it has helped me deal with me and my emotions.I am in such a better emotional state than I was before. (step 1)...
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    Legal Seperation

    I am will be living for 3 weeks from 7July (my sons birthday)to 3 Aug the day after my birthday for army National Guard Training. I have found three seperate houses for my son to stay at.My son does not want to be around his mom at all. My son Daniel works 38 hours a week at safeway. So I will...
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    Legal Seperation

    I went to individual counselling and it helped me deal with the emotional side and how to get control of my own life. I now have my own apartment and my son lives with me and my wife and daughter are staying at a friends house until she can afford her own place. My son now sees a different...
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    Legal Seperation

    I will seek outside counseling, but I will not let my wife just tear me appart and put me on the hot seat.She just wants to control everything. She has the attitude that I am the victim here and you should be giving me what I want. I am still looking for a counselor. It usually costs about...
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    Legal Seperation

    After my wife took a bible study at church and then went to a reteat afterwards she tried to control everything in our mariage. I went to the church Pastor for couselling, but my wife worked at the church and she was best friends with the pastors wife and after being in the hot seat everytime...
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    Legal Seperation

    Today my wife informed me that she was filing for a legal seperation. Finaly she does this after 10 months of being a part or as I would call it hell. Pray that she does see how good that I have treated her and have not missed one child support payment. I will always Love her and put her...
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    sick of the emotional crap

    I know that what you are going through is hard, but thanks for venting. I hope this does help, sometimes you just need to have a good listener to let it off your chest and then move on. The best advise I can give would be to stay busy and get some sleep. Put some boundries up and do not allow...
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    Please pray for me! I'm so angry

    I will keep you in my daily prayers. Turn it all over to God and have him take away the hurts and pains. stay busy and you will keep your mind off the situation. Do not accept late calls at night that will upset you and not be able to focus on your job or yourself from lack of sleep.
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    Help-My Wife Has Walked Out and Filed

    I would agree that you need to protect yourself at this point. Cancel credit cards, close your joint checking account and get your own (change direct deposit), inform your bank not to accept anymore checks from her( they can put a hold on the account. Cancel her cellphone,use cash or pay buy...
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    Dating

    Today I told my son that he needed to end the relationship and I know that this hard for him. It is his first kiss and first real girl in his life. He said that he would talk to her later and take a break for a while to find god in his life again.
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    Dating

    Thankyou for the advice that you have given me. I will try to be the patient yet strict guildline parent. I told them so slow it way down or I would end it. It would not be a good idea to control my son but to encourage to make wise choices and decisions.
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    Dating

    My son who now is age 16 almost 17 is dating a 20 year old girl who goes to a junior college part time and works full time. My son works at the same store as this girl and they have gone on one date together to the mall to buy some shoes. I will not leave them alone together and the girl...
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    my husband and skimpy bars

    Confusedmum, I would say that there is nothing wrong with you. It is a hard situation when the trust issue gets involved. Lust and evil desires are always there. I would agree with IKTCA to get him involved in church and away from the bar seen. Goodluck I will pray that it will get better for you.
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    Custody/Support Qs

    If you still want to keep this low profile and not to spendy. I would try a mediator if you can. It is true that child support will change the more time that you have custody of them. Here lies the question for you ; Is it worth putting pressure on your wife and making things worse. You can ask...
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    Supporting your own son.

    My wife got 20 tickets from the school for my sons Highschool graduation ceromeny. My wife gave tickets to her friends who she thought would like to attend first. Now there were only 5 tickets left for my son to give to his friends. I forget who is graduating ? Then my wife does not understand...
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    Moving

    I am now doing this and I do not have any expectations from her. I just try to be nice and respect her for a mom and a wife. I pray every day that things will get better. I know that I cannot change her, so I will have to accept her as she is. I do hope that God will work through her. Thankyou...
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    Depression in Marriage

    I would limit your conversations to general topics and do not get your expections to high to expect her to love you when you move away from her. Did you dicuss this move with her prior to moving. If you did and she agreed to it then she should support you through it. If you did not you may want...