To be honest when my wife allowed me to do this thing with her it was a selfish act. The pleasure was almost always mine. She got used to it somewhat but it would still hurt. Now to clear things up. When we did this we were'nt exactly looking for God. We parted from the Lord shortly after getting married. I must come clean here... when I wanted to do this and while we did it I began to loose respect for her. I am now reconciled with the Lord and I sorta always new anal sex was wrong but I ignored the feeling. At this moment I strongly believe that it is a sin even with your wife. The reason I feel this way is because every time we di it I feel convicted and just awful about it. Besides...the rectum was'nt designed for re-entry. I've had a similar question for some time now but on the opposite. I've never considered oral sex to be sodomy. I dont feel convicted when I do it to my wife and I dont feel convicted when she does it to me. Does anyone have some insight on the matter of oral sex being wrong in mariage?
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Finally, some other Christians that don't think it's inappropriate to talk about sex! I totally agree that anal sex is alright, IF your spouse is okay with it. Also, I agree that if a married couple wants to use "toys", or "kinky vampish stuff" (Jenna), then God bless it! They are married!
