Never in a million years could I have said it any better than
@Bradskii did.
To me true Christendom isn't found in a church, or a religion, or a book... it's found in one's compassion for their fellow man. As such it seems to me that Bradskii isn't causing his grandson to stumble, but rather he's doing his best to teach him not to.
Just for the record, I haven't imputed
@Bradskii as being 'evil.' Nor have I verbally abused him. Nor have I stated that he has no morality or that his morality isn't substantive.
So, your attempted counter to my admonitions here about how I think he should better his dialogue and advice with his grandson doesn't actually discount anything I've said firmly elsewhere about the value of Compassion (i.e. Christian compassion versus the generic brand compassion that equates more or less to 'just say nice things only').
Furthermore, this is a sub-forum of a Christian forum. You can state what you will about what you think Christiandom is, but that in and of itself has no ontological weight (or clear evidence) that what you view as the substance of Christianity is indeed Christianity. One could just as simply cite that Buddhism-dom, or Taosim-dom, or Humanism-dom is just as much Christian in essence as bona-fide Christianity, and that would be a false equivalency and non-sequitur.
I understand that some of you here have had difficult lives and a very hard go of it where the Christian faith or dealing with Christians is a concern. I've had some hard knocks in those regards as well, but we need to not get too squishy with our discussion on what constitutes 'true Christianity' so as to avoid nearly saying (or proving) nothing other than expressing what our esthetic preferences are for such and such mode of expression we like to receive from others, Golden Rule or no.
In returning to the locus of this particular thread, I again leave folks with the following to consider about quality of life and survival IN GENERAL rather than continue on with the rather foul tasting affirmation about how, allegedly, Christian faith makes better warriors:
As atheistic neuroscientist Robert Sapolsky has stated about the generic mental benefits of religion (even if not Christianity in particular):