I am looking for some help with my ever-growing confusion with Christianity and the moral law. I feel like I'm being torn in two opposite yet similar directions.
On the one hand, sin separating us from God is a core belief of Christianity for why Jesus came to earth and died. Sin then implies that there are things which we do which are "right" (aka righteous or non-sinful) and thing that we do which are "wrong" (aka unrighteous, or sinful). This then further implies that there are rules of some kind which must exist to define what is "right" from what is "wrong". However, Christianity is always described as a relationship with God, not a set of rules to follow. This description is increasingly making less and less sense to me because for all the emphasis Christians put on the "relationship", there seems to be an awful number of "rules" people want you to follow. However, when pressed and asked what those rules are, no one can give them, and if they do, certainly different people do not agree.
On the other hand, Christianity also has within Paul's writings the roots of the idea which is commonly referred to as "my truth". Paul implies in Romans that if someone considered something sinful then it is sinful to them and we are not acting in love toward that person if we just ignore their personal convictions. Paul also implies the opposite, where if you and God have essentially "worked it out" that something is "right", then it is.
These two points of view are seemingly completely opposite from one another, and I have no idea how to reconcile them. I think "right" (aka righteous or non-sinful) and "wrong" (aka unrighteous, or sinful) exist and there is a line between that that exists "somewhere", but where do we find that line? And please don't say, it's in the Bible. That's a cop out.
On the one hand, sin separating us from God is a core belief of Christianity for why Jesus came to earth and died. Sin then implies that there are things which we do which are "right" (aka righteous or non-sinful) and thing that we do which are "wrong" (aka unrighteous, or sinful). This then further implies that there are rules of some kind which must exist to define what is "right" from what is "wrong". However, Christianity is always described as a relationship with God, not a set of rules to follow. This description is increasingly making less and less sense to me because for all the emphasis Christians put on the "relationship", there seems to be an awful number of "rules" people want you to follow. However, when pressed and asked what those rules are, no one can give them, and if they do, certainly different people do not agree.
On the other hand, Christianity also has within Paul's writings the roots of the idea which is commonly referred to as "my truth". Paul implies in Romans that if someone considered something sinful then it is sinful to them and we are not acting in love toward that person if we just ignore their personal convictions. Paul also implies the opposite, where if you and God have essentially "worked it out" that something is "right", then it is.
These two points of view are seemingly completely opposite from one another, and I have no idea how to reconcile them. I think "right" (aka righteous or non-sinful) and "wrong" (aka unrighteous, or sinful) exist and there is a line between that that exists "somewhere", but where do we find that line? And please don't say, it's in the Bible. That's a cop out.