I have to say I eventually done a bit of deconstruction over 30 years ago, and haven't really identified as christian since.
In our group we were talking about how in "the 60's" there were people who were saying we all needed to "question" what we were told in our Christian church culture and the way the American government was doing things. But the ones saying to question had their motive. They were not interested in us getting with the real Jesus. But they wanted to get rid of the moral restraints; and now we are seeing which way they were headed.
But yes, I would say, God does want us to evaluate.
"Test all things; hold fast what is good." (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
But this does not mean to doubt everything. But test. And we might see how the "60's people" were counterfeit > if they were trying to get you to try on your own to evaluate. This could isolate you with your own self and your own limited capability for evaluating. But I will offer > where God says to test everything > He means for us to test in submission to God and in sharing with one another as family in Jesus, so we are not isolated and we have God making us able to test reliably and He has us sharing as family helping each other with testing "all things". He personally guides us, plus God uses our example and prayer to help one another.
And yes I would say the Bible can be used to find out what is real and true. But we need how God has us understanding. And we need how God gives us what His word means. Not only an explanation. There are things the Bible is talking about . . . including how God's love is, and how we become because of Jesus growing in us.
In order to see what is counterfeit, we need to know the real thing so we can compare everything to the real thing. So, yes God's word can help with this; but we need how God shares His real love and holy way with us, so we can compare things with this. Because it is possible to have His word, but we can fail to correctly understand what His word is saying; so we also need how our Father ***demonstrates*** all that His word means. A good teacher does not only talk and give us great explanations, but a genuine teacher also demonstrates and gives us experiences of what the teacher is talking about.
We need how God proves Himself in us, then. And then we can actually experience all that His words mean.
For example > Jesus Himself says >
"'Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.'" (Matthew 11:28)
So, Jesus here is calling to "all". Come to Jesus. He wants "all" to come to Himself, and to no less. So, we can "rabbit hole" ourselves, maybe, by going and studying a bunch of people and their ideas. But Jesus calls us to Him. And He will give us "rest". So, Jesus is guaranteeing, how He will prove Himself to "all" who come to Him, by giving "rest" to all who trust in Jesus. Our Apostle Paul says, "we who first trusted in Christ", in Ephesians 1:12. So, there is personal trusting involved in coming to the real Jesus.
To come to trust Jesus > this trusting is not what people of this world know anything about. They have never truly trusted anyone! Each of us has needed how God alone is able to change us so we discover how it is to trust Jesus. And we keep growing in this. There is discovering needed, and God's demonstration. There is learning needed > with Jesus >
"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (Matthew 11:29)
So . . . we do not only come to Jesus. But we need to take His "yoke" upon us. We have actual experience, in this, of having the yoke of Jesus. A yoke has you in connection and communication and in the control and the care of the one with the yoke. So, this is very personal and this is very sensitive and submissive . . . with Jesus Himself. And He says we will discover, I think this means, how Jesus teaching and guiding is "gentle and lowly in heart". You actually experience in yourself how Jesus is kind and personal and tender and gentle and humble in how He communicates and personally guides. In a yoke you are in constant contact and connection to be constantly guided . . . gently and humbly by Jesus Himself.
And so, He does not just talk to us and tell us. But God is quiet . . . never silent. But are we sensitive and quiet so we can share with Him and submit to Him, deeper than words?
Even so, God's word can bring us to reality of how we are so personally sharing with God Himself. All His word is meant not only for explanation and ideas and correct beliefs, then. But God's word does with us all that God Himself means, and that God in us does with us; He proves Himself, by having us doing all He means by His word, in sharing with us. And so we can rest, then; because it does not depend on any of us being able to correctly understand God and figure Him out. He is too much, to great, to be figured out > His ways are "past finding out", we have in Romans 11:33.
And so, no one is smart enough, no one is qualified to take us over > including our own selves > we are not able to know what to do with our own selves. And so . . . it is logical, maybe we can say . . . how Jesus says every one needs to deny one's own self, in order to be with the true Jesus and walk with Him >
"If anyone desires to come after Me, let Him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me." (in Luke 9:23)
So, if you want to get with the Jesus who is "gentle and lowly in heart" > we "all" have needed to deny our own selves, including our own human free wills which are part of our own selves. Because we ourselves have not been gentle and lowly in heart. We have not been all-loving, like Jesus, and we have not been generously forgiving, like Jesus was, on the cross. So, how we have been in our self's character is not enough. We have been our own enemy with our own counterfeit ways of trying and pushing and forcing and boasting how we have been doing things.
We needed to join Jesus on the cross > to take up our cross > so we could "die to self", and become alive in Jesus and in real love. Faith brings people together with Jesus and this faith has us becoming how Jesus is and therefore how He loves. Faith does not only have us trusting in Jesus out there somewhere at a distance, but faith has us together with Jesus in us. And Jesus in us has us becoming more and more like Him > "gentle and lowly in heart". Being "lowly" means being humble > Jesus who is so superior is humble . . . not at all conceited about being so superior; but Jesus so humble left Heaven itself, in order to reach us and save us. So, being humble like Jesus means we, too, love any and all people.
And we join with Jesus on the cross, joining in how Jesus on the cross had hope for any and all people > love "hopes all things", we have in 1 Corinthians 13:7. And Jesus expects us to follow Him, by so all-loving >
"if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" (Matthew 5:46)
"And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma." (Ephesians 5:2)
So, taking up our cross includes dying to our own selves and how we humanly have been able to make choices with our own ways of doing things and seeing things. And learn from Jesus. On the cross with Jesus > become all-loving, feeding on the example of Jesus on the cross, of how to become loving and generously forgiving. This is what faith is about. It is not only about beliefs and correct ideas, then.
But our Apostle Paul says we need "faith working through love", in Galatians 5:6.
"Therefore submit to God." (in James 4:7) And in God's almighty peace you will see what happens.