In the title > "to confirm ban on female pastors"
I have seen how men can be said to be pastors, but they do not seem to obey God's way of leading >
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
So, in case a leader wants to ban women, does this man have the qualification to pastor? Or, is he trying to lord himself over women?? I see how a Christian leader wins obedience, by means of his good example > indeed, Jesus Himself has left us His example > not just a bunch of rules for controlling us. This includes Christ's example of how He was loving, on the cross >
"And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma." (Ephesians 5:2)
And so, a qualified pastor leads by this example, of obeying the example of Jesus. And this includes how Jesus related with His ladies. He used Mary Magdalene, by the way, to preach His resurrection to the disciples > note how Peter and John went to the grave, first, but Jesus did not appear to them, there. But after they left, then was when Jesus appeared to Mary > we can see this in John 20:1-18.
Also, if a leader is calling for the banning of female pastors, does this person have the qualification of self-control? Our Apostle Paul says a leader must have ***self-control*** > note in Titus 1:8, how a qualified leader is "self-controlled". This, I would consider, includes how the person is not a **food abuser**, because he has matured in self-control of the Holy Spirit. I think I have seen some number of men in leadership who are food abusers. But does this get attention? Or . . . are ones cleverly and/or ignorantly making a major issue about women so attention is away from how some number of men "might" not be qualified to lead as examples of self-control.
Plus, he needs to be "sober-minded" > Titus 1:8 > to me, this includes how he is sober emotionally so he does not argue and complain, but he obeys Philippians 2:14 >
"Do all things without complaining and disputing," (Philippians 2:14)
So, are men being evaluated as closely as women are?
Even if God really does mean for only men to pastor, it is possible for a group to do this the wrong away, including by picking only on women, but not dealing with if their men are really qualified. I do not know if SBC leaders are attentive to what qualifies a man to pastor. But in case people are doing things the wrong way, this does not automatically mean women may pastor. So . . . looking at how ones do this the wrong way is not how to evaluate what God's word really means.
For example > if God wants a wife to be subject to her husband > ones accuse this to mean men can abuse and control their wives. And in their fear they can feel that would be slavery. But, in any case, Jesus does not mean for us to be in fear and controlling anyone and slavery! But if He means for anyone to be subject to someone else, He means how God would make this good . . . like how it is good for us to be subject to Jesus. If you have a good doctor, it can be wise to be subject to your doctor. And God would provide someone who is for your good to be over you. Your head, by the way, is qualified to be over your body . . . if, of course, you have good thinking going on in your head and your head is healthy.
And our Father is the Head of Christ > "the head of Christ is God", we have in 1 Corinthians 11:3. So, one being head over another can be good. But it seems there are women screaming against God having a man as a woman's head. However, if men can be wrong . . . so can women > for one things, why has a women married someone she does not trust enough to be her head?? Jesus can provide a real man.
However, the head does well to sense what is going on in its body, to get feedback, and to stay submissive to how the body needs to be and needs to do things. Plus, neither the head nor the body can do well without the other > cut the neck, and see how well they do without each other! I mean, if God means for the man to be the head of his wife . . . only this can work.
But many people are not submissive to Jesus in His peace; and so they do not have "rest for your souls." (in Matthew 11:29) The real reason, then, why both men and women do not have peace and rest is not because of any wrong people they have connected with, but because they have not gotten into Jesus Christ's "yoke" > Matthew 11:28-30 > and learned how to obey Jesus in His peace.
There are plenty of men and of women who have gotten into the pulpit, but they do not have Jesus Christ's "rest for your souls."
And plenty are married, but they are not committed to doing only what Jesus has us doing with "rest for your souls" (in Matthew 11:29) and to relate "without complaining and disputing" (Philippians 2:14). And in case Jesus did not guide them together, they can not live in His peace, unless they trust in Him by submitting to Him in His personal guiding with His sweetly soothing soul rest. And so, in case a woman did not make sure with God about who she married, of course she could get with a wrong person who she does not trust to be her head. But this is not what God's word means, by telling wives to be subject to their own husbands. Peter says for wives to be submissive to their husbands, too, by the way . . . not only Paul says this > 1 Peter 3:1-4.
But ones have cleverly, or ignorantly, kept attention to criticizing Paul, without mentioning Peter.