- Jun 16, 2016
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Hello everyone,
I haven't always had a good relationship with my in-laws, but things got better between us when I married my husband. But, after four and a half years of marriage things are waning between my mother in-law, sister in-law and I. Lately when I get excited about a gift that they buy me they always have comments. They will say things like "that is why I got it for you", and they will say it with a tone.
My mother in-law recently invited me to a baby shower for one of thier family friends. When I asked when and where it will be she became annoyed.
My dad in-law was eating some pie and he said that I could have some. I still wasn't sure if I should have some or not so, I didn't get any at first. Shortly after this my sister in-law said with a raised, annoyed voice that if I wanted some pie I could help myself to some. At that point, I decided just to forget it and grabbed myself a slice of pie.
I tried talking to my husband on what to do. He said that I could talk to them, but if I do they will become defensive/offended. If he talks to them it could make things worse and it has done so in the past. So, we both don't know what to do.
Thank you all for your prayers and godly counsel. God bless you all!
I haven't always had a good relationship with my in-laws, but things got better between us when I married my husband. But, after four and a half years of marriage things are waning between my mother in-law, sister in-law and I. Lately when I get excited about a gift that they buy me they always have comments. They will say things like "that is why I got it for you", and they will say it with a tone.
My mother in-law recently invited me to a baby shower for one of thier family friends. When I asked when and where it will be she became annoyed.
My dad in-law was eating some pie and he said that I could have some. I still wasn't sure if I should have some or not so, I didn't get any at first. Shortly after this my sister in-law said with a raised, annoyed voice that if I wanted some pie I could help myself to some. At that point, I decided just to forget it and grabbed myself a slice of pie.
I tried talking to my husband on what to do. He said that I could talk to them, but if I do they will become defensive/offended. If he talks to them it could make things worse and it has done so in the past. So, we both don't know what to do.
Thank you all for your prayers and godly counsel. God bless you all!
