I can't meet women standards

Earthbear said:

I keep trying to meet women but their standards are too high.

I am a felon and a disabled veteran but I have been very lonely. I live in pain and loneliness everyday. Even many times I had wished I had died instead
of someone who is happy and enjoys life.

Click to expand...

Very sorry to hear that ... Do you attend a church/faith fellowship or cell group? How is your faith/life with God? Have you fully processed your past and put anything that wasn't God desire behind you? When being lonely, friendships are the thing to look for. Develop/pursue interests/activities that be can undertaken jointly with others (not necessarily women). Do you invite others for social activities/dinner?

Focus on who you are in Jesus/Yeshua if you've put your faith in Him .. and with that perspective process and let go off the past. Your heavenly identity can be quite different from your earthly one.

Your profile lists 'in relationship' - that may be confusing. Typically people date within their league. Please grow and mature into becoming a spiritually/mentally/socially healthy man - only then you may be ready to be a blessing to a potential partner.

Be blessed brother - life can be hard indeed!