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both my sister and parents have forgiven me so why do i still have to suffer a harsh punishment ? advice please ?

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i did say sorry to my sister and she forgave me, but dont forget i was punished harshley, when i returned home from school on the friday evening i was escorted to my bedroom, then i had to hand over my phone , pc and tv, my parents then took the key from inside my bedroom door and LOCKED ME IN , i was instructed to finish any homework, at 9pm i was instructed to get into bed, lights out at 9pm, the next morning my parents woke me up at 7am, they told me i was on prison conditions, after a shower i was locked back in my room for the rest of the day, i was NOT allowed to sleep during the day, i was set tons and tons of schoolwork to do including maths, english geography, french biology, and science , i was also set two 4 page punishment essays to write, both on the saturday and sunday , all my meals were served in my room, if i needed the toilet i had to knock on my bedroom door, then either one of my parents or older sister would unlock me and escort me to the bathroom, then straight back and locked up again, i know i done wrong but i dont think i deserved a punishment as server as this do you ?
Okay, your parents are punishing you. Why? Just how many things have you done, without thinking it through? My guess is, quite a few.
 
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Last thursday i had a row with my older sister, because she is claustrophobic and hates confined spaces , i locked her in her room, i enjoyed watching her kick and screaming to be let out, i only meant for her to be locked in for an hour or 2, while anyway my friend rang up and i got distracted and went out, i forgot about my sister, my parents came home 6 hours later and found her locked in, she had missed her driving lesson and a date with her boyfriend, my parents went mad and said i would be getting a taste of my own medicine , they said i will be spending ALL of this weekend locked in my room as a punishment,as i have exams this year my parents have set me tons of school work to do , including maths , english , french and science plus 2 punishment essays, as i write i am locked up and i DONT like it, are my parents being fair ?
What you did was too cruel.
You should love and cherish your family members.
You should reflect on it.
 
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I’m praying for you sally. @sally1234

It’s not good what you did, but no one is perfect and we all have sinned against God.

Talk to God about how you are feeling!!

God made you sally!! He is Our God!! God is Our Creator forever!! :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
 
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No offense, but how old are you? You sound incredibly immature.

Doing something like this would have never occurred to me when I was a kid. My mom always told me she thought I was a good kid, "intelligent and mature" for my age. Can the same be said about you?

Your posts show a pattern of concerning behavior. I think your punishment is warranted. It sounds a bit sadistic to me that you don't even care about other people in the slightest and how your actions would make them feel. Hopefully in the future you won't turn into a psychopath. Sorry if that sounds harsh.
i said sorry to my sister and i regret what i done, dont forget i was punished and punished harshley, , on the friday evening when i returned home from school i was escorted to my room i lost my tv phone and pc , i was then locked in my room for the whole weekend i had to eat in my room and was only allowed out for bathroom breaks, my parents made me get up at 7am on the saturday and sunday after a shower and breakfast i was locked in my room for the rest of the day i was set tons of schoolwork to do plus punishment essays, lights out and bed 9pm, i DONT think i deserved to be punished like that do you ?
 
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What you did was too cruel.
You should love and cherish your family members.
You should reflect on it.
i said sorry to my sister and i regret what i done, dont forget i was punished and punished harshley, , on the friday evening when i returned home from school i was escorted to my room i lost my tv phone and pc , i was then locked in my room for the whole weekend i had to eat in my room and was only allowed out for bathroom breaks, my parents made me get up at 7am on the saturday and sunday after a shower and breakfast i was locked in my room for the rest of the day i was set tons of schoolwork to do plus punishment essays, lights out and bed 9pm, i DONT think i deserved to be punished like that do you ?
 
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I’m praying for you sally. @sally1234

It’s not good what you did, but no one is perfect and we all have sinned against God.

Talk to God about how you are feeling!!


God made you sally!! He is Our God!! God is Our Creator forever!! :cookie::cookie::custard::custard:
i said sorry to my sister and i regret what i done, dont forget i was punished and punished harshley, , on the friday evening when i returned home from school i was escorted to my room i lost my tv phone and pc , i was then locked in my room for the whole weekend i had to eat in my room and was only allowed out for bathroom breaks, my parents made me get up at 7am on the saturday and sunday after a shower and breakfast i was locked in my room for the rest of the day i was set tons of schoolwork to do plus punishment essays, lights out and bed 9pm, i DONT think i deserved to be punished like that do you ? thank you for your kind words
 
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Okay, your parents are punishing you. Why? Just how many things have you done, without thinking it through? My guess is, quite a few.
i am no angel, i am expected to get very good grades in my exams later this year, thats why while i was locked up my parents made me study, i hated being locked up , why does punishment have to be so misreable ?
 
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i am no angel, i am expected to get very good grades in my exams later this year, thats why while i was locked up my parents made me study, i hated being locked up , why does punishment have to be so misreable ?
So you learn. Imagine how your sister felt? Do you think your parents feel they can trust you?
 
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Sounds like you learned a lesson to me. Leaving your claustrophobic sister locked up and then leaving the house? You got off pretty easy.
i did learn my lesson the punishment hurt me big time, i lost my freedom for a whole weekend why is punishment so painfull ?
 
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What you did was too cruel.
You should love and cherish your family members.
You should reflect on it.
i said sorry to my sister and i regret what i done, dont forget i was punished and punished harshley, , on the friday evening when i returned home from school i was escorted to my room i lost my tv phone and pc , i was then locked in my room for the whole weekend i had to eat in my room and was only allowed out for bathroom breaks, my parents made me get up at 7am on the saturday and sunday after a shower and breakfast i was locked in my room for the rest of the day i was set tons of schoolwork to do plus punishment essays, lights out and bed 9pm, i DONT think i deserved to be punished like that do you ?
 
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So you learn. Imagine how your sister felt? Do you think your parents feel they can trust you?
i didnt like the punishment, i had no idea just how misreable being locked up is, i dont want to be punished again why no sympathy ?
 
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The parents are also to blame. They are to set an example and haven't done that.
i am 15 i said sorry to my sister and i regret what i done, dont forget i was punished and punished harshley, , on the friday evening when i returned home from school i was escorted to my room i lost my tv phone and pc , i was then locked in my room for the whole weekend i had to eat in my room and was only allowed out for bathroom breaks, my parents made me get up at 7am on the saturday and sunday after a shower and breakfast i was locked in my room for the rest of the day i was set tons of schoolwork to do plus punishment essays, lights out and bed 9pm, i DONT think i deserved to be punished like that do you ?
 
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i didnt like the punishment, i had no idea just how misreable being locked up is, i dont want to be punished again why no sympathy ?
Because you got what you deserved. I just pray you learned from it. They call it punishment for a reason. I feel sorry for what your sister had to endure. Move on and do better.
 
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i did say sorry to my sister and she forgave me, but dont forget i was punished harshley, when i returned home from school on the friday evening i was escorted to my bedroom, then i had to hand over my phone , pc and tv, my parents then took the key from inside my bedroom door and LOCKED ME IN , i was instructed to finish any homework, at 9pm i was instructed to get into bed, lights out at 9pm, the next morning my parents woke me up at 7am, they told me i was on prison conditions, after a shower i was locked back in my room for the rest of the day, i was NOT allowed to sleep during the day, i was set tons and tons of schoolwork to do including maths, english geography, french biology, and science , i was also set two 4 page punishment essays to write, both on the saturday and sunday , all my meals were served in my room, if i needed the toilet i had to knock on my bedroom door, then either one of my parents or older sister would unlock me and escort me to the bathroom, then straight back and locked up again, i know i done wrong but i dont think i deserved a punishment as server as this do you ?
I don't know. The good news is that unlike your sister who was left alone and could die in a fire, you have supervision. You think it is easy for your parents to monitor you? Open and close the door, someone they love and give so much too? This is tough on them but you have to show some responsibility. I would start by not complaining and pray to God that you are thinking about the consequences of all your actions. I am not saying you are a bad person. Just enjoy what you can, your years will go by fast and hopefully you can laugh at the matter in the future.
 
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Because you got what you deserved. I just pray you learned from it. They call it punishment for a reason. I feel sorry for what your sister had to endure. Move on and do better.
my sister spent 6 hours locked in her room, i spent friday night locked in , all day saturday locked in my room, saturday night locked in my room, all day sunday locked in my room , and sunday night locked in my room, i was so bored just looking at 4 walss surly just one day locked in whould have been punishment enough dont you ?
 
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I don't know. The good news is that unlike your sister who was left alone and could die in a fire, you have supervision. You think it is easy for your parents to monitor you? Open and close the door, someone they love and give so much too? This is tough on them but you have to show some responsibility. I would start by not complaining and pray to God that you are thinking about the consequences of all your actions. I am not saying you are a bad person. Just enjoy what you can, your years will go by fast and hopefully you can laugh at the matter in the future.
my sister spent 6 hours locked in her room, i spent friday night locked in , all day saturday locked in my room, saturday night locked in my room, all day sunday locked in my room , and sunday night locked in my room, i was so bored just looking at 4 walls, i was put to bed at 9pm, i had to listen to my 2 other sisters getting ready to go out while i was shut in and could go nowhere , surly just one day locked in whould have been punishment enough dont you ?
 
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my sister spent 6 hours locked in her room, i spent friday night locked in , all day saturday locked in my room, saturday night locked in my room, all day sunday locked in my room , and sunday night locked in my room, i was so bored just looking at 4 walls, i was put to bed at 9pm, i had to listen to my 2 other sisters getting ready to go out while i was shut in and could go nowhere , surly just one day locked in whould have been punishment enough dont you ?
Why not forget about comparisons and make good use of your time while you are locked up? many are far worse off than you. Health problems that do not allow them to leave the bed or room, prisoners convicted unjustly, or even Joseph of the bible whose brothers sold him as a slave. Be grateful your parents care enough to help this correction. You will be fine, but do not be bitter or angry. It will only affect you negatively. God bless you and your situation, May God speak to your heart and grant you the mercy and love to grow in Him. Peace to you and your family!
 
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my sister spent 6 hours locked in her room, i spent friday night locked in , all day saturday locked in my room, saturday night locked in my room, all day sunday locked in my room , and sunday night locked in my room, i was so bored just looking at 4 walss surly just one day locked in whould have been punishment enough dont you ?
No you forget she’s claustrophobic. You left her with no bathroom breaks, food or water. Think about it. And left the house where anything could’ve happened. She was trapped.
 
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