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I need advice from a priest.

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I don't know of any reason why you would not be able to marry the lady in question.

Your first wife committed adultery which is sufficient grounds for an annulment anyway as far as I know.

You validly married your second wife in the Catholic Church, but she has since died. As the vow states, marriage is "till death do us part".

As far as I can tell you are now free to marry the lady you are interested in.

But to really put your mind at rest, talk to a priest. They know the ins and outs of canon law as it is part of their training.

PS - I notice one of your other posts has to do with the Eucharist. If you still haven't sorted that one out, then I'd suggest you talk to the priest about that as well.
Not sure why my prior reply doesn't show up but here goes nothing...

I do not believe Adultery in itself was grounds, it was the pattern of adultery and what they called intention against fidelity. I.E. she had zero intent to be faithful in marriage before or during...

My second wife and I married in the Baptist church, although as I understand it the Catholic Church considers it a valid marriage that was terminated by her passing.

The annulment from my first wife has been granted, still waiting on the final letter but to my understanding she did not nor would she have any reason to appeal / contest it...

Lastly the issue with the Eucharist was explained by someone here in a manner that actually makes perfect sense... (Sorry Father Bob... )

Working through the Catechism in a Year with Fr. Mike Schmitz and he is answering most of the sticking points well...

Day 144, so I have a long way to go and at least for now, I have some serious questions that need to get resolved...


For what it's worth. The whole marriage / divorce / annulment thing is not high on my recommendation list. Going through this process does open up a lot of old wounds, but as they say, light is the best disninfectant...
 
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