Same here. I’ve met many people throughout my life and most don’t hold racist views. I live in Texas and my wife is from Louisiana. Some of her older side of the family were David Duke followers back in the day but from my wife’s generation forward they abhor racism. I remember dealing with it when I married my wife 41 years ago. In fact my father in law left his family home to go to college as soon as he could because of his parent’s racist views (his own story).
"Don't hold racist views" can be a misnomer. It can be surprising how "racist views" affect us subconsciously.
A few years ago, when my wife and I first moved to the Dallas area, we were driving through various areas of the city sight-seeing. At that time, we were driving through a posh area that was clearly
old money. We saw a young black man in running attire jogging on the sidewalk. Without really thinking about it, I muttered, "Hmm." So, did my wife.
We had a conversation about the fact that both of us
noticed the young black man jogging in an old money area of Dallas. In most other areas, we would never have noticed his presence, but in this area he "stood out" to us and caught our notice--because he wasn't "supposed" to be there. We realized that was an old Boomer sentiment, when as black people we were carefully taught that there were areas of cities we weren't supposed to be, and this area fit our unconscious memories as an area we were not supposed to be. Work in, drive though, but not
live in. And fifty years of integration had not fully erased what had been inculcated into us as children. Not that we objected to the young man--our attitude toward him was "Represent!"
An interesting thing about the South, too, is that bigotry is subtly different in various ways. For instance, a southern white can be a bigot against black people in general, but still be very congenial to a
particular black person. "Yeah, Bill over there, Bill's a good one."
I think with a lot of my elderly white Texas acquaintances that I know are MAGA, I'm just a "good one" because I know the environment they were raised in.