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Would a Christian man be okay with this arrangement?

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Much of what you see around you is a time lapse. You witness the same cycles repeating themselves continually. There is no difference between the present, the previous year or the one before. They converge into an ocean of sameness which some refer to as the matrix. Non attachment is the remedy and way beyond the loop. That's why I mentioned the 12 virgins. You cannot enter the next without the oil.
These short cycles are by design and are man-made. They are "necessary" in free market economy. But perhaps, designed to keep us divided. Doesn't really make dating impossible unless you're only dating people within 10 mile radius tick all the tell tale signs that you'll cheat and/or control freak in a relationship.

There are much longer cycles that correspond to cosmic cycles and probably related to the quantum state of the universe. It can span a very long time and each cycle may have different "rules" on how the "game" needs to be played. These rules are not determined by man and I think in extreme cases, it could even change the laws of physics.

"escaping" or just sailing through the loop by avoiding attachments reminds me of the "Bardo Thodol".

The more you consider what's about to work rather than what's not working the better off you'll be. Technocratic societies aren't stagnant and the bulk of their time is on solutions not the other. That's the trap you're escaping and you'll be forced to cut the chord and don't look back when you do. The next phase is ahead. Don't keep it waiting too long.
I'm also trying to undo all the lies I have believed my whole life. But on top of it, the search for what's really true.

I think this is what's coming to the world. Whether Christianity will pass judgement, the chances are very slim.
 
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These short cycles are by design and are man-made. They are "necessary" in free market economy. But perhaps, designed to keep us divided.

I think there's merit in the matrix analogy but it doesn't address the cosmic elements and those are equally important. We're seeing half the picture and half the story and clueless how everything fits together and there's a lot left out on purpose.

I heard a great piece on the future of education earlier and ai's influence and it's the closest we've come to an environment with equal resources at our disposal where the difference is will and tenacity. The old system of memorization and encyclopedic knowledge for a later date is useless. We need people who can take an idea and put it into action through projects and hands-on demonstrations or bring products to the market quickly.

This is our hour and entrepreneurs will outperform the establishment by a wide margin. We're not bogged down with bureaucracy and understand the principle of done is better than perfect. So start creating and if you're good at gpts put them out there. Take the things you've learned in respect to faith and build a tool that poses questions others don't and inspires them to think and find answers.

Doesn't really make dating impossible unless you're only dating people within 10 mile radius tick all the tell tale signs that you'll cheat and/or control freak in a relationship.

If you're doing what I said above that's the probable place you'll meet someone and rightfully so. Many are stuck in the past or in the present and only a handful are considering what's possible. They're predicting we'll have many millionaires in addition to the downturns. Not either or but taking place simultaneously and I've seen it firsthand.

You'll be exchanging ideas with people from many places. Some local some otherwise. I'm envisioning less time behind the screen and greater opportunities in person for brainstorming and connecting just because. That's what I see happening within the circles I described. Ir's a different energy and vibe.

There are much longer cycles that correspond to cosmic cycles and probably related to the quantum state of the universe. It can span a very long time and each cycle may have different "rules" on how the "game" needs to be played. These rules are not determined by man and I think in extreme cases, it could even change the laws of physics.

That's one of the subjects you can dig into and see where it takes you. When we implemented a biblical calendar everything shifted because we moved to a different frequency and the flow is natural. You can't play the game when you're on the wrong board. You have to be properly aligned and attached to the Source not a system.

"escaping" or just sailing through the loop by avoiding attachments reminds me of the "Bardo Thodol".

I'm also trying to undo all the lies I have believed my whole life. But on top of it, the search for what's really true.

I think this is what's coming to the world. Whether Christianity will pass judgement, the chances are very slim.

I don't know if you can escape on your own so to speak or if we transcend certain stages and enter others with greater degrees of consciousness in tow. Our communication with the spiritual world is definitely heightened and speaking things into being is easier. We're not finding anything. We're stepping into what already exists. You don't have to undo the lies. Acknowledging what's false and supplanting it with light is enough if you live with that in mind. You affirm the truth by operating from that place not the lesser you that embraced the deception.

I couldn't tell you what's happening in the world let alone America. I see bits and pieces but it doesn't register or grab my attention. I've left it behind and all I see is what's around me and the road ahead. I have no attachment to the rest. The meek shall inherit the earth and it's alive. Lean into your inheritance and you'll find more than you imagined.

~bella
 
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I think there's merit in the matrix analogy but it doesn't address the cosmic elements and those are equally important. We're seeing half the picture and half the story and clueless how everything fits together and there's a lot left out on purpose.
They do. They have the same agenda as the Matrix, basically to keep everyone distracted from the truth.

This is our hour and entrepreneurs will outperform the establishment by a wide margin. We're not bogged down with bureaucracy and understand the principle of done is better than perfect. So start creating and if you're good at gpts put them out there. Take the things you've learned in respect to faith and build a tool that poses questions others don't and inspires them to think and find answers.
I'm no longer interested in sharing. Ironically, chatgpt recommended it. It's about exercising control over trade secrets and contributing to society in other ways. It gave a very long list of why it's way better than getting it out on public if meeting certain parameters.

If you're doing what I said above that's the probable place you'll meet someone and rightfully so. Many are stuck in the past or in the present and only a handful are considering what's possible. They're predicting we'll have many millionaires in addition to the downturns. Not either or but taking place simultaneously and I've seen it firsthand.

You'll be exchanging ideas with people from many places. Some local some otherwise. I'm envisioning less time behind the screen and greater opportunities in person for brainstorming and connecting just because. That's what I see happening within the circles I described. Ir's a different energy and vibe.
So far, I've only been able to reach out to the people I saw in my dreams. They're all street/urban skaters. It's strange they all have the same "heart" outside of skating both rich and poor. Only one other is actually messing around with AI in their work as programmer. But that doesn't really matter.

It's funny how these dreams manifested in real life few years later. There's other dreams with them that's incredibly horrific.

I don't feel any need to reach out elsewhere. Improving my chance of finding a future wife is not in consideration at all. Not for a long while anyway.

That's one of the subjects you can dig into and see where it takes you. When we implemented a biblical calendar everything shifted because we moved to a different frequency and the flow is natural. You can't play the game when you're on the wrong board. You have to be properly aligned and attached to the Source not a system.
I don't know if you can escape on your own so to speak or if we transcend certain stages and enter others with greater degrees of consciousness in tow. Our communication with the spiritual world is definitely heightened and speaking things into being is easier. We're not finding anything. We're stepping into what already exists. You don't have to undo the lies. Acknowledging what's false and supplanting it with light is enough if you live with that in mind. You affirm the truth by operating from that place not the lesser you that embraced the deception.

I couldn't tell you what's happening in the world let alone America. I see bits and pieces but it doesn't register or grab my attention. I've left it behind and all I see is what's around me and the road ahead. I have no attachment to the rest. The meek shall inherit the earth and it's alive. Lean into your inheritance and you'll find more than you imagined.

If "source" you mean Yahweh or Elohim. I can't do it anymore.
 
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If "source" you mean Yahweh or Elohim. I can't do it anymore.

If you've walked the earth long enough the presence of good and evil is hard to dispute. We see evidence everywhere. No one's interpretation of God nullifies His existence. Whether you accept the christian ideal or not.

The church is a system and all systems are used as mechanisms for control. Even the ones that start out with good intentions because power corrupts. This is where maturity comes in and you weigh things honestly. You don't toss out God because someone lied or serves the other covertly. Satan has many ambassadors in the church. But that doesn't minimize your reason for being or the reality of His presence.

The heroes journey isn't for the faint of heart or those who require neat and tidy experiences to substantiate their beliefs. It requires grit and fortitude and you are one of many who've placed yourself in a quagmire because of your endless search for truth. You can't know everything all at once. Somethings will break your mind, heart and faith if you address them unprepared.

Truth is a double edged sword and the more you know the greater your warfare and accountability. You don't get the same pass as the unlearned and you'll recognize this when His presence departs and the other fills it if you continue on this path. There's a requisite authority and power that accompanies our knowledge when pursued through the Tree of Life. The other overfills the mind with ideas and facts with nothing behind them.

The foundation must be sure before you seek greater things. Your comment says much and I've seen others like you lose their way, get into gnosticism, the occult or other paths. And a lot of the information is channeled. It didn't come from their psyche it was downloaded from the lower realm. In my experience, when you step into greater knowledge on the path He sets His presence expands and your battles differ.

When I posted the thread for Riley the spirit manifested in my home. It wasn't because of the ones I shared but my personal petition that brought its ire. I didn't stop what I was doing to deal with it. I finished the thread and posted a message to him directly then I dealt with it. My prayers have a different level of authority because of my knowledge and gifting. That's what the tree of life looks like in action. As you expand your abilities follow suit and it doesn't lead you from the Father it draws you closer to the throne.

I don't know what you believe you know or if you're prepared to deal with the fallout if you're wrong. But I suspect it'll be a lesson nonetheless and you won't be swayed. I suggest you save the information I provided to him on the ministry for prayer. My advice to you is to step back. You've gone too far to quit and the price is grave.

~bella
 
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If you've walked the earth long enough the presence of good and evil is hard to dispute. We see evidence everywhere. No one's interpretation of God nullifies His existence. Whether you accept the christian ideal or not.

The church is a system and all systems are used as mechanisms for control. Even the ones that start out with good intentions because power corrupts. This is where maturity comes in and you weigh things honestly. You don't toss out God because someone lied or serves the other covertly. Satan has many ambassadors in the church. But that doesn't minimize your reason for being or the reality of His presence.

The heroes journey isn't for the faint of heart or those who require neat and tidy experiences to substantiate their beliefs. It requires grit and fortitude and you are one of many who've placed yourself in a quagmire because of your endless search for truth. You can't know everything all at once. Somethings will break your mind, heart and faith if you address them unprepared.

Truth is a double edged sword and the more you know the greater your warfare and accountability. You don't get the same pass as the unlearned and you'll recognize this when His presence departs and the other fills it if you continue on this path. There's a requisite authority and power that accompanies our knowledge when pursued through the Tree of Life. The other overfills the mind with ideas and facts with nothing behind them.

The foundation must be sure before you seek greater things. Your comment says much and I've seen others like you lose their way, get into gnosticism, the occult or other paths. And a lot of the information is channeled. It didn't come from their psyche it was downloaded from the lower realm. In my experience, when you step into greater knowledge on the path He sets His presence expands and your battles differ.

When I posted the thread for Riley the spirit manifested in my home. It wasn't because of the ones I shared but my personal petition that brought its ire. I didn't stop what I was doing to deal with it. I finished the thread and posted a message to him directly then I dealt with it. My prayers have a different level of authority because of my knowledge and gifting. That's what the tree of life looks like in action. As you expand your abilities follow suit and it doesn't lead you from the Father it draws you closer to the throne.

I don't know what you believe you know or if you're prepared to deal with the fallout if you're wrong. But I suspect it'll be a lesson nonetheless and you won't be swayed. I suggest you save the information I provided to him on the ministry for prayer. My advice to you is to step back. You've gone too far to quit and the price is grave.

~bella
I simply studied the Bible via Biblehub.com in Hebrew of the Old Testament and in Greek of the New Testament.

Biblehub.com is one of the most popular and exhaustive Bible study tools for Christians.

Ironically, with Biblehub you can piece together how the devil who steal kills and destroy took possession of all the kingdoms and its riches he is offering to those who worship him.

The New Testament portrays him as the one who steal, kills, and destroys. The one condemned for destruction in Revelation for violating (commmiting acts of evil against) the Earth and its inhabitants. The One the Jews refer to as their "father" in John Chapter 8. The father of lies and bloodshed.

Studying and cross-referencing the words in Hebrew and Greek across the whole Bible will reveal the identity of The Devil or Satan, English translations doesn't bring justice to it but rather hides it with different and benign words.

Religion don't want you looking too deep into the truth. Who would be hiding from the truth? Why those at the very top doesn't want you knowing the truth?
 
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I simply studied the Bible via Biblehub.com in Hebrew of the Old Testament and in Greek of the New Testament.

Do you know how to read either language without relying on another person's translation? And if getting to the source was a priority why haven't you learned?

Religion don't want you looking too deep into the truth. Who would be hiding from the truth? Why those at the very top doesn't want you knowing the truth?

What religion wants has no bearing on my walk with God nor is proving them wrong a necessity. The fruit will tell in time. There should be little disconnection between what we know, do and produce. Each ascension brings a greater level of anointing and authority and flows outward. How is the kingdom enriched by your efforts? It seems very self-focused.

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Do you know how to read either language without relying on another person's translation? And if getting to the source was a priority why haven't you learned?



What religion wants has no bearing on my walk with God nor is proving them wrong a necessity. The fruit will tell in time. There should be little disconnection between what we know, do and produce. Each ascension brings a greater level of anointing and authority and flows outward. How is the kingdom enriched by your efforts? It seems very self-focused.

~bella

Even with just the English translations, the Devil fights, wages war for his worldly kingdoms. Jesus said those of the light do not. Jesus keeps giving clues on who the Devil is.

I've shut myself to the poison of the Devil. I'm not going back to something I've known most of my life. The heaviness is just more unbearable than even poverty or even being single for a very long time.

I've lived a comfortable life before and even able to travel for work but I'm not missing it at all. I now remotely work for Christians who are quite well off even have their own farm. Working for them gives me joy but I don't dream nor covet the things they have. I'm happy for them. It gives me joy to see them happy. Wish I could tell them what I know now but glad there's quiet voice out there if they're willing to listen to it.

They're marrying left and right but I feel absolutely no pressure at all. Maybe my circumstances prevent me from pursuing relationships but I might actually feel just the same if my circumstances are different.

Ofc, back then being comfortable meant quite differently. I did not lower my standards like I'd settle for something less of the same things. My desires changed. My mind changed. I don't want the same things any longer.

I think the coming generation is heading this direction too. I don't really know, just a hunch. Ofc, many are not Christians (non-religious) to begin with.
 
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