I think my daughter is here... i need help.

Neostarwcc · Jan 29, 2026

So I just had a dream and in the dream God used the most beautiful sunset that I had ever seen that I had to show my wife Jeanette in the dream to tell me that my daughter is here. Coincidentally enough 6-8 days after we suspected she ovulated (we suspect either the 21st or the 23rd).God even allowed me to look directly at the sun in the dream it was truly a blessing.

I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now. Anyway, keep us in your prayers we applied for weatherization for our trailer because eva is going to need it it's constantly 58-62 degrees in our trailer and Jeanette and I deal with it but a newborn Infant cannot and ive been praying for God to help me find a way to deal with that situation I'm VERY concerned for Eva.

My parents don't share the same concern and they're the only ones with the money to do it because my sister is just as poor as me and would gladly help me but her and her husband make more than me but she also is trying to take support her two kids. So I'm trying to get the government to pay for it since it's really my only option. I cannot possibly save up $7,000-$10,000 in 9 months it's totally unrealistic my wife doesn't even make 35k a year so yeah totally unrealistic. Anyway, there's just so much preparation involved and I feel overwhelmed and I need some advice. Especially advice on how to raise my daughter Christian and how to keep her in the faith. That would be appreciated.

Marie333 · Jan 29, 2026

Neostarwcc said:
So I just had a dream and in the dream God used the most beautiful sunset that I had ever seen that I had to show my wife Jeanette in the dream to tell me that my daughter is here. Coincidentally enough 6-8 days after we suspected she ovulated (we suspect either the 21st or the 23rd).God even allowed me to look directly at the sun in the dream it was truly a blessing.

I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now. Anyway, keep us in your prayers we applied for weatherization for our trailer because eva is going to need it it's constantly 58-62 degrees in our trailer and Jeanette and I deal with it but a newborn Infant cannot and ive been praying for God to help me find a way to deal with that situation I'm VERY concerned for Eva.

My parents don't share the same concern and they're the only ones with the money to do it because my sister is just as poor as me and would gladly help me but her and her husband make more than me but she also is trying to take support her two kids. So I'm trying to get the government to pay for it since it's really my only option. I cannot possibly save up $7,000-$10,000 in 9 months it's totally unrealistic my wife doesn't even make 35k a year so yeah totally unrealistic. Anyway, there's just so much preparation involved and I feel overwhelmed and I need some advice. Especially advice on how to raise my daughter Christian and how to keep her in the faith. That would be appreciated.

God will provide. Keep applying for help and don’t hesitate to call local home construction and renovation businesses to ask if they might have any leftover weatherization materials or insulation. As for raising your daughter Christian and keeping her in the faith- the key is to not only teach her what you be, but most importantly, why you believe it. So many kids are raised in church, but as they get older, find themselves falling away from belief because they don’t know why they believe what they believe.

Neostarwcc · Jan 29, 2026

Yeah I asked my elder if he amd his wife would do their best to help her stay in the faith amd they said of course. My elder and I are like best friends and he and his wife were overjoyed at the news that Jeanette might be pregnant. I also told him about the dreams ive been having amd about the 9 year promise that God gave me. He told me to be careful because sometimes things that seem to be from God aren't really and we should test everything that seems to come from God. He said if it comes to pass than it was from God but if it doesn't than it wasn't from God. "God" is telling me this baby is coming very very soon so if shes not pregnant now and isnt within like 5-6 months than it wasnt God thats been telling me for the last 9 years we were going to have a baby and ive remained faithful to him for nothing.

Sad, but true.

Firstlightdawn · Friday at 10:35 AM

Neostarwcc said:
I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now.

Psalm 139 16 says that God writes the book of our life at conception. The angels are given to read the book and help us to become that person. We are given our gifts, talents and abilities at conception. We need to use what we have to bring praise, honor and glory to God. There is nothing better than to worship God.

Neostarwcc · Friday at 10:36 PM

Firstlightdawn said:
Psalm 139 16 says that God writes the book of our life at conception. The angels are given to read the book and help us to become that person. We are given our gifts, talents and abilities at conception. We need to use what we have to bring praise, honor and glory to God. There is nothing better than to worship God.

Right. Thank you.

Rescued One · Tuesday at 9:00 PM

I've had many, many disappointments in life. But as long as God guides you, you will find ways to bless others. And then you will be joyful.

Firstlightdawn · Tuesday at 9:18 PM

Rescued One said:
I've had many, many disappointments in life.

People tell me that God does not ever disappoint us.
As you say we need to seek to know His will for us and our lives.

Rescued One · Tuesday at 10:41 PM

I only mentioned that to say that experiencing sorrow doesn't have to drag us down.

Firstlightdawn · 2026-02-11T00:52:25-0600

Rescued One said:
I only mentioned that to say that experiencing sorrow doesn't have to drag us down.

Yes, my wife has been very healthy all of her life. Now as she turns 65 she is having health issues. I have to keep reminding her that God causes all things to work together for good. Just like this weather. I have never seen 20 degrees below zero. But this too shall pass and it does get warmer. The average world temp is always 59 degrees. That does not ever change. We know that "Joy comes in the Morning". Psalm 30:5:

Neostarwcc · 2026-02-11T03:59:58-0600

Yeah I might as well mention in here since I mentioned in another thread and I kind of was too upset to mention it anywhere else but its been a few days now and I guess I can talk about and mention it elsewhere now.

Its been confirmed that my wife was in fact pregnant through a prolactin test. The other day her gynecologist ordered one and her levels were high enough to prove that we dod in fact, make one and she wss in fact, pregnant for a while and the egg was implanted for a very short period (likely only 3-5 days).

However the results also were low enough to prove why all of her pregnancy tests were negative. It wasnt just because we were testing too "early" its because she lost that baby 3-5 days after it implanted. I was extremely distraught when I found out the news but given the level of my wifes bleeding on the 8th and the fact that I highly suspected she was pregnant and it wasnt her period... I had figured that there was no hope for the baby... but I had no wanted to admit it at that point.

God said that this baby was a boy so we've named our son and we've been trying over the past few days to forget about it but honestly, we've been talking about virtually nothing else. We are extremely heartbroken and it makes no sense to us. But, God decided to take our baby from us.

MForbes · 2026-02-11T04:32:01-0600

Neostarwcc · 2026-02-11T05:13:20-0600

MForbes said:
Hang on a second.....In your first post, you said God showed you it was a girl.

???

I had thought so yeah. Let me explain. God was giving me multiple dreams/visions or whatever you want to call them over the last month and a half about my children and it was quite confusing. In the early stages he was showing me what Eva (What we decided to name our daughter) looked like, sounded like, acted like...etc. He gave me a very good glimpse of her and also on and off over the past 9 years he's been promising my wife and I a baby. But on the 28th and 29th he gave me two different dreams. On the 28th he gave me a dream of my sister giving birth to a premature baby boy and my wife Jeanette in the dream I had was surprised that I had called ahead of time that it was a boy and that it had been born "premature".

The night afterwards he gave me the dream that I shared in the OP. Only the dream was extremely weird... the more I've thought about it over the past 3 weeks the more that I think I could have interpreted it wrong. Especially given my dream the night before with the virtually dead and premature baby boy. The more I examine the previous nights dream the more I think that that baby boy could not have been premature at all but actually you know... dead. Especially now that I know that my wife lost our son.

Plus, son/sun fits and my wife agrees with me. We think God gave me the visions of Eva because she was the child that God promised to us all of those years ago and David (What we decided to name our son, we named him after King David because he was literally God's most loyal servant and God's most blessed. He is the only one in all of God's creation who has the right to rule directly next to him. So its a fitting name for our son) was the proof that we could create something and we WILL see him again. He also gave me visions of Eva to give me hope because it proves that Eva will live while David, well God chose to take him away from us.

bèlla · 2026-02-12T17:59:44-0600

Out of respect for you wife I think you should restrain yourself next time and wait until the pregnancy is confirmed before jumping the gun. It puts a lot of pressure on her and bringing God into it only makes it worse. Be careful about attributing things to Him aloud. Sometimes we have to hold things within out of respect for other parties or confirm our suspicion.

When the Lord wants us to reveal something it's exact. He spells it out. But there are other instances when the Holy Spirit nudges us in a direction and we'll have bits and pieces but not the whole picture. Sometimes we see in the spiritual but the things we observe have a time and season. Speaking about them too soon can cause problems.

Your excitement was understandable but that's the soul not the spirit and we must lead with the latter. In respect to her womb what have you done about it on a spiritual level and your end as well? We can discuss that if you'd like.

~bella

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