I think it's wonderful that you've devoted yourself to learning about different denominations and choose one every year! It isn't necessary to restrict yourself to lesser known groups and with a year to explore you're certain to learn a lot and have many more ahead as you said. There's an Amish population downstate in Arthur, IL and Shipshewana is very popular in Indiana.
Amish 365 and
Amish America are excellent resources you may want to peruse as is
QuakerSpeak. The Amish are most prominent in America but you'll find anabaptists in other countries including Mennonites and Quakers. There's a settlement in the UK as well that I learned about in a private group. They're trying to build a community and reestablish their presence. I saw a video a year ago you may be interested in. I'll try to find it and post the link.
I'm not an expert by any stripe but I went down this rabbit hole when looking for a church a few years ago. I settled on the anabaptists for many reasons. I've had an opportunity to learn about the quakers and mennonites and fellowship to some degree. There's not a lot of them in the city. But now that we're moving I've found several communities for both.
We're urban homesteaders as well and there's many people within that demographic that were raised as mennonites including old order sects. I don't want that level of tradition or restrictions. But I find their philosophies on family and community to be very satisfying. A common complaint on the site is loneliness and it weighed on me a lot in my search because of the things I observed during the pandemic where the church was concerned.
The lack of togetherness was bothersome. I didn't want a church that did otherwise. I wanted a culture where it's the norm and I found it with them more than others. I was part of a group of anabaptists online. Many were in the traditional sects. It was challenging at times when they spoke about their marriages. It wasn't a cakewalk and after a while it started to vex my spirit and I stepped away.
As the saying goes, it's not you it's me and it was. I used to be in the company of women like that and mormons and others who had traditional relationships. I've grown a lot and their discourse is fairly unbalanced. Their identity is enmeshed in a manner I don't think the Lord intended and it makes me uncomfortable. Although I love anabaptists, I don't know if I could marry someone who grew up in an old order environment nor would I welcome the same for my daughter.
I don't find them to be holier than thou and it takes a certain mindset to live like that. The separation doesn't bother me per se. I'm not a hermit but I have my bubble too. Some find it problematic and want christians to have greater hegemony. But I don't require that nor would I want a group to set aside what makes them unique to merge with others. We all have different needs and things that minister to our spirit. I can be myself with them and we have similar interests and concerns. Their priority is one another. Not the news, politics and so on.
I remember a video I saw that drove it home. It was a barn raising for a family who'd lost theirs in a fire and the community was building them another one. The women were busy setting up the tables with food and drinks for the workers when they finished and it was quite the spread. There was a moment that gripped my heart I've never forgotten. The men were on the roof and there wasn't a free space available. It seemed like they were hammering in unison and I began to cry because it was beautiful. I said to myself this is the gospel.
You could walk this country by foot amd struggle to find the same anywhere outside of that culture. I wanted that for myself and my family. More than words as the songwriter says. People who show up and do life together. That's what I needed most.
~bella