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I think my daughter is here... i need help.

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So I just had a dream and in the dream God used the most beautiful sunset that I had ever seen that I had to show my wife Jeanette in the dream to tell me that my daughter is here. Coincidentally enough 6-8 days after we suspected she ovulated (we suspect either the 21st or the 23rd).God even allowed me to look directly at the sun in the dream it was truly a blessing.

I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now. Anyway, keep us in your prayers we applied for weatherization for our trailer because eva is going to need it it's constantly 58-62 degrees in our trailer and Jeanette and I deal with it but a newborn Infant cannot and ive been praying for God to help me find a way to deal with that situation I'm VERY concerned for Eva.

My parents don't share the same concern and they're the only ones with the money to do it because my sister is just as poor as me and would gladly help me but her and her husband make more than me but she also is trying to take support her two kids. So I'm trying to get the government to pay for it since it's really my only option. I cannot possibly save up $7,000-$10,000 in 9 months it's totally unrealistic my wife doesn't even make 35k a year so yeah totally unrealistic. Anyway, there's just so much preparation involved and I feel overwhelmed and I need some advice. Especially advice on how to raise my daughter Christian and how to keep her in the faith. That would be appreciated.
 
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So I just had a dream and in the dream God used the most beautiful sunset that I had ever seen that I had to show my wife Jeanette in the dream to tell me that my daughter is here. Coincidentally enough 6-8 days after we suspected she ovulated (we suspect either the 21st or the 23rd).God even allowed me to look directly at the sun in the dream it was truly a blessing.

I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now. Anyway, keep us in your prayers we applied for weatherization for our trailer because eva is going to need it it's constantly 58-62 degrees in our trailer and Jeanette and I deal with it but a newborn Infant cannot and ive been praying for God to help me find a way to deal with that situation I'm VERY concerned for Eva.

My parents don't share the same concern and they're the only ones with the money to do it because my sister is just as poor as me and would gladly help me but her and her husband make more than me but she also is trying to take support her two kids. So I'm trying to get the government to pay for it since it's really my only option. I cannot possibly save up $7,000-$10,000 in 9 months it's totally unrealistic my wife doesn't even make 35k a year so yeah totally unrealistic. Anyway, there's just so much preparation involved and I feel overwhelmed and I need some advice. Especially advice on how to raise my daughter Christian and how to keep her in the faith. That would be appreciated.
God will provide. Keep applying for help and don’t hesitate to call local home construction and renovation businesses to ask if they might have any leftover weatherization materials or insulation. As for raising your daughter Christian and keeping her in the faith- the key is to not only teach her what you be, but most importantly, why you believe it. So many kids are raised in church, but as they get older, find themselves falling away from belief because they don’t know why they believe what they believe.
 
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Yeah I asked my elder if he amd his wife would do their best to help her stay in the faith amd they said of course. My elder and I are like best friends and he and his wife were overjoyed at the news that Jeanette might be pregnant. I also told him about the dreams ive been having amd about the 9 year promise that God gave me. He told me to be careful because sometimes things that seem to be from God aren't really and we should test everything that seems to come from God. He said if it comes to pass than it was from God but if it doesn't than it wasn't from God. "God" is telling me this baby is coming very very soon so if shes not pregnant now and isnt within like 5-6 months than it wasnt God thats been telling me for the last 9 years we were going to have a baby and ive remained faithful to him for nothing.

Sad, but true.
 
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I will know for sure that she's pregnant on the 1st through the 4th maybe the 5th when a pregnancy test confirms it for 100% but ive been getting the feeling that she was going to get pregnant with our daughter Eva this month for a long time now.
Psalm 139 16 says that God writes the book of our life at conception. The angels are given to read the book and help us to become that person. We are given our gifts, talents and abilities at conception. We need to use what we have to bring praise, honor and glory to God. There is nothing better than to worship God.
 
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Psalm 139 16 says that God writes the book of our life at conception. The angels are given to read the book and help us to become that person. We are given our gifts, talents and abilities at conception. We need to use what we have to bring praise, honor and glory to God. There is nothing better than to worship God.

Right. Thank you.
 
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