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So my brother in law has a mother named Debbie. When he married my older sister, she became part of our family through his marriage.
Unfortunately, she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She is not a very good person at all and I will tell you why.
You see, when my brother in law was a kid, his mother and his father were both drug addicts and they sold illegal drugs on the street. They even tried to get him to do it, but he was just a kid! He was raised in a bad household where his parents neglected him and told him that his birth "was a mistake." What a thing to say to a child! How dare they be so unloving!
So he had a bad childhood. His mother never cooked anything for him, he had to fend for himself and make his own meals. You might say he grew up really fast.
About Debbie: She had been taking illegal drugs for so many years (which just fueled her drug addiction like fire and she refused to go to rehab) that unfortunately it caught up with her. She finally became paralyzed on the left side of her body and had to be admitted to the hospital. That was several years ago. She is living with a caretaker nowadays. But her drug addiction fried her brain (ouch!) and that is how she got her personality disorder. Today she is both a cruel and very selfish person, who always talks about "how great she is" and puts her son down all the time. It's quite toxic.
This is why she so desperately needs salvation. She has lived like the Devil her whole life, and now I am seeking God to bring her into his light and clean up her ways.
I don't talk or interact with my mother in law, I've actually never even met her. But from what my brother-in-law tells us about his mother and his upbringing, I can see she is not a good person and she did not raise him with love and care, like I feel every mother should do with their children...
It makes me sad hearing stories like this, that kids were raised by parents who didn't love them or abused them in some way. I had the exact opposite childhood that my brother in law did: it was a very good childhood. I had loving parents and a lot of playtime. I have fond memories of my childhood. It was great.
And now I am just sad that he didn't have the same happy experience I had growing up. Why is the world so unfair like that?
Unfortunately, she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She is not a very good person at all and I will tell you why.
You see, when my brother in law was a kid, his mother and his father were both drug addicts and they sold illegal drugs on the street. They even tried to get him to do it, but he was just a kid! He was raised in a bad household where his parents neglected him and told him that his birth "was a mistake." What a thing to say to a child! How dare they be so unloving!
So he had a bad childhood. His mother never cooked anything for him, he had to fend for himself and make his own meals. You might say he grew up really fast.
About Debbie: She had been taking illegal drugs for so many years (which just fueled her drug addiction like fire and she refused to go to rehab) that unfortunately it caught up with her. She finally became paralyzed on the left side of her body and had to be admitted to the hospital. That was several years ago. She is living with a caretaker nowadays. But her drug addiction fried her brain (ouch!) and that is how she got her personality disorder. Today she is both a cruel and very selfish person, who always talks about "how great she is" and puts her son down all the time. It's quite toxic.
This is why she so desperately needs salvation. She has lived like the Devil her whole life, and now I am seeking God to bring her into his light and clean up her ways.
I don't talk or interact with my mother in law, I've actually never even met her. But from what my brother-in-law tells us about his mother and his upbringing, I can see she is not a good person and she did not raise him with love and care, like I feel every mother should do with their children...
It makes me sad hearing stories like this, that kids were raised by parents who didn't love them or abused them in some way. I had the exact opposite childhood that my brother in law did: it was a very good childhood. I had loving parents and a lot of playtime. I have fond memories of my childhood. It was great.
And now I am just sad that he didn't have the same happy experience I had growing up. Why is the world so unfair like that?
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