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America, Please Put Some Pants On

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From airports to churches, America’s epidemic of childish attire signals a deeper collapse in standards.

Somerset Maugham once said that the well-dressed man is the one whose clothes you never notice. U.S. Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy would probably settle for “no slippers at TSA.” Has America turned into a nation of slobs? Duffy seems to think so. He recently launched a campaign encouraging travelers to dress like adults, arguing that sartorial choices influence behavior, especially on airplanes.

“Whether it’s a pair of jeans and a decent shirt, I would encourage people to maybe dress a little bit better, which encourages us to maybe behave a little better,” he said. And, more bluntly: “Let’s try not to wear slippers and pajamas as we come to the airport.” He’s spot-on: sloppy dress reflects a lack of self-respect and projects immaturity, which, in turn, sets a poor example for youth.

But Duffy’s proposals transcend air travel. Too many adults dress as if childhood never ended. Pajamas, hoodies, sneakers, and far too many ironic novelty tees have become standard — especially for men, who no longer see value in presenting themselves as grown-ups. There was a time when appearance conveyed responsibility, discipline, and self-respect. Today, comfort and irony carry the day.

What do we make of the 48-year-old father/accountant wearing a Pokémon T-shirt to parent-teacher night, or the 31-year-old commuter programmer sporting a Saquon Barkley jersey at 8 o’clock Mass? These attacks are too easy, and too fun, and seem almost too mean-spirited to be justified. But they are not — and Duffy is on to something. Dressing like a sixth grader conveys a lack of attention to what it means to be an adult.

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As 'pants' means underwear, this side of the Atlantic, I certainly hope they put some on!

As an elderly female, a Cary Grant lookalike, in suit and tie, would be a more appealing companion than a man in joggers and tee shirt. However I thought I'd heard that casual loose clothing was more suitable when flying. Is it something to do with circulation?
 
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I'm all for comfort and think we should go back to wearing robes and togas.

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Eh - I think there is kind of a blurry line here. At least for me..

Its clear the author doesn't like quirky t-shirts for men. But, I'll go with one of his examples...

What do we make of the 48-year-old father/accountant wearing a Pokémon T-shirt to parent-teacher night,

I make of it that is 100% ok. Nothing wrong with a pokeman shirt to a casual event like that. In fact, cheers to the 48 yo dad that actually went to parent teacher night! The world needs more dads like that! That dad and his pokemon t-shirt are great IMO.

So, that's on the OK side of the line.

On the "Not ok" side of the line.

I saw a family in the grocery the other day. Parents in their early 40's. Little girl about 8. Mom was in jeans and a short sleeved top, looked normal for an outing to the grocery. Little girl was in shorts and a t-shirt. Normal kids attire. Both had hair combed, shoes on, etc. Dad was in flip flops, and thin, worn, stained, white and blue pajama pants, a white tank top style undershirt that was also worn, stained and torn. His hair looked like it hadn't seen a comb in about a month or so. Unlike the dad in the author's example, this dad did not look OK IMO. Instead of looking like a dad out with his family it looked like Mom and daughter had found some bum off the sidewalk and taken him to the store with them.
 
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