You realize you just made our point for us. If I want a better car I have to work for it. If I want a weave of my dreams I have to work for it. I dont ask.my neighbor to pay my car payment for me.
If I did I would.expect that my neighbor wouldn't want to let me buy whatever I wanted. And then I wouldnt expect my neighbor to pay my car payment so I can get a tattoo. Thats taking advantage of people. Are you seriously advocating for people to take advantage of others?
I thought you were big on ethics.
The difference is you’re looking at their car, saying yours is worse, and thus they don’t deserve food. Not that you should work harder to get a better car because somebody you feel beneath you has a better car than yours. You’re thinking your total ignorance on how snap is calculated and the assumptions you’re making about what they spend in other areas of their life somehow represents fact.
When they calculate benefits, they look at income, expenses, people in the household, and intangibles (disability, job market, medical need) to determine what you can get. Using nice round numbers because it’s 6:30a and I’m bad at head math, yet don’t care enough to track down a pen and paper to explain this to you, but say you make $100 a month to on a household that has two adults and a child. Snap benefits say it actually costs $200 a month to support a household if they size, so they agree you qualify.
Then they look at your expenses. They say that housing for your area should be 30% of your income, so $30 at your level, or $60 at threshold. Car? That should be 10%, so $10 and $20 respectively. General life expenses like utilities, bills, debts, whatever at 20%, so $20 and $40. Food? 15%, so $15 and $30. Other that can’t be captured by those categories, essentials but one-time payments like school fees, home or car repairs, or savings, 10% or $10 and $20. If there’s an essential but extraordinary expense, special schooling, special medical care lime in home nursing, they build that in too. Then they build in a fudge factor, because housing in your area is more expensive than average, your commute is longer because you live where it’s cheaper and so your gas prices are higher, let’s say that’s 5%, or $5/10.
That means, using their algorithm, they think out of $100 you make, is the reasonable expenditures you should have is $85-90 and a the minimum to survive is $185-190. They calculate the amount you make, the difference between the minimum, and the minimum, and arrive at what you get. If you are expected to spend $15 and you need $30, it’s reasonable to assume you’ll get in the area of $10-15 to make up the difference, maybe a little more if you have another factor, like a baby and higher than average expenses for home items like diapers, or special medical needs.
You act like they sit down, factor an applicants bills, say “I see you want to spend 50% of your income on a car… Better give you more grocery money, then!” Or “you spend double what you make to live in a mansion, so we will cover 100% of your groceries so you can stay in your mansion.” Or “hey, Rjs? We hate that guy! Here, we will pay you way more than you need in groceries so you can have a better car than him, because seriously, he’s the worst.”
If they look at your finances and see you are overpaying in an area of your life, maybe, MAYBE they’ll allot you a bit extra for 90 days to scale down your spending to meet sustainable ratios, but we’re talking an extra 3-5% for 90 days, not an extra 200% for 10 years. If you’re spending your 10% on your car or less, they don’t care if it’s a beater or a Beamer, just that you’ve made a great choice in your spending. That’s literally the only thing they care. If you’re spending more, they’ll say “you’re not spending what you should on your car, so you want your Snap administrator to help you find a better option? Because in 3 months, you’re going to be in a bad way.” And when 3 months you show up and have that same car, they’ll say “we warned you, guess your car is getting repoed because we aren’t giving you more, even though you now can’t work because you can’t drive. We’ll recalculate in a year, but don’t expect much because we offered to help and you said no.”
You know what else they don’t do? They don’t say “Congrats! You got benefits, so now scrub off all your tattoos, take out your weave, wear this poor person costume, and practice your Oliver Twist impersonation because you only get your benefits if you cosplay destitute.” They say “so you have a ton of tattoos, that must have cost a lot, hope you learned your lesson because if you didn’t, you don’t get more money.” Or “your expenses are within their ratios, good job,” and give zero cares about your weave because you were in budget.
Besides which, do you even know what a weave costs? Are you such an expert in makeup, hair, and fashion that you can look at a woman and see what it cost to be put together that day? You can look at her and say “That eye liner is clearly Haus Labs, the weave clearly virgin human hair, that haircut clearly from the high end hair place on 5th, and the color? That’s fire engine red, a shade only available from Viori, which means it’s a salon job that cost big bucks.” Because experience has taught me that the average man has zero knowledge about such things and couldn’t tell you if my liner was Haus or house paint, if my color was salon or it was boxed. My husband knows because he cleans up after me, and drag queens seem to clock Haus brand because they use it… But seeing as you’re not my husband and reasonably sure you’re not a drag performer, unless you’re buying enough women’s hair pieces and makeup to know baseline cost, I doubt you really have any idea at all, just like you don’t know about their car.
I think you just say “they have a better car than me, better makeup than I do, better hair than I do, they’re doing better than me, they need to be punished for having what I don’t” as opposed to saying “man, I wish I had Haus eyeliner and a better weave, what can I do to better myself and get it?” which is the rational thought, I might add, especially since you look at kids without enough food and people who need food stamps and think they should have worked harder to get it. If you think they should work harder for a need like food, the least you can do is work harder for your want of a weave, nice makeup, and a better car.
I’m super big on ethics, you’re right. Difference between you and I is that in the pursuit of determining what is and isn’t ethical, I learn about the topic, then determine the ethics based off of my knowledge on the topic. You gauge how much you like something or how much it irritates you we determine morality proportionally to your outrage. I don’t use the terms “this bothers me,” “I’m jealous,” and then conclude with “and making me mad is immoral thus they’re being unethical.”