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How to clear your mind of bad experiences?

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Do these:

1) Pray for relief from anger or sadness. Pray for humility.
2) Write down your bad experiences and how it made you feel. Can do it on paper, for around 15 minutes.
Do it for at least several days in a row.
 
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It's been a very long time since I used email to write to friends.

I don't think there's any kind of special trick to email and digitally write to friends...at least I don't think so. Maybe there's something I haven't thought of.
 
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The best way to address it is through prayer.

*Begin with forgiveness and address the people and situation in detail. Pour out your heart to the Lord and release it.
*Repent of negative feelings, untoward words and deeds and ask for forgiveness.
*Pray Psalm 51.
*Pray against the spirit of unforgiveness, rejection and bitterness. If you’re recalling the situation often with negative emotions rising and it’s been six months or more add a root of bitterness to the list.
*Pray 1 Corinthians 13 and personalize it. Continue doing so up to 30 days depending on the severity.
*If the situation was hostile end with Psalm 91.

~bella
 
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