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Living our Christian Faith Together.

Carl Emerson

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In my first essay I spoke about returning to unity-based fellowship as a stepping stone to rediscovering the power of Jesus.
Today I have another issue for us to consider, the neglect of community in our modern Christian lives.

In the last seven decades I have seen the erosion of community in society in general. The corner store was squeezed out by the supermarket; the local urban cop is no more. We know few others in our streets these days. Spontaneous local support has been largely replaced by professional ‘care-givers’ A church elder once regularly visited every family in the parish. Nowadays the churches are often closed during the week and the needy soul no longer has access to a caring father heart, rather a professional counsellor at a cost.

As if God had an answer to this trend, back in the 70’s many mainline churches experienced very significant growth, assisted initially by the evangelism crusades of Billy Graham, and later Luis Palau and others, but more significantly, a re-discovery of signs and wonders Christianity akin to that recorded in the book of Acts.
There was a great deal of bible study going on then, as leaders and lay alike tried to understand how this new mode of Christian life with phenomena like healing and prophecy, and a strong sense of community among believers should be lived.
Families were beginning to break bread together with friends – unheard of before.
At that time various attempts were made to establish some form of Christian community with varying success. There was a tension between the house meetings that spontaneously sprung up and the official church-based activities. Would they try to grow into churches, would control be lost? Would the church lose out on the tithes?
During this period of New Zealand church history there were many outstanding miracles as Jesus was for a time able to move with a fluid body of believers but this was not to last.
Strong ‘cover’ teaching began to reign in many of the believers who were enjoying a vibrant but threatening walk with Jesus. Little theological room was given to the notion of a corporate cooperating body of believers in a district having daily fellowship outside the organised programmes of the church.

Now the mandate for corporate living goes back a long way in fact scripturally precedes the birth of the church. Further the first churches functioned with a vibrant community in support, in which there was sharing of possessions, elimination of material hardship and a resulting material equality (Acts2 2:42-47 and 2 Cor 8: 13-15)
We are light years away from this today and are missing out on being the visible testimony of Gods love in the process.
Jesus indicated in John 17:23 that the visible unity of the believers was a key aspect of evangelism. The modern church has lacked significant conversion growth for decades for this reason.
Not only do we lack this vibrant community today but many of the modern churches are without shame adopting a business or an army model, alienating those who naturally seek a family experience.

What then is the answer?
We need to let the Church attend to matters like the call to corporate worship, apostolic teaching, and prayer while the believers in community are devoted to neighbourhood fellowship, lay ministry, market place evangelism, as a separate yet co-operating spiritual entity, visible to the world. Then the gathering of the saints for church worship would be an occasion to share testimony of what the Lord has done, with the associated spontaneous response of praise and thanks upon which true worship naturally builds.
The challenge is to implement a structural change to the way we do our Christianity.
No longer should all our Christian activity proceed from the ‘vision’ of the local church. Families with a like call to Christian living should combine and become an effective expression of Jesus in their neighbourhood. This movement would cut across the denominational divide and feed back new life into all the churches. Many believers who have given up attending church would relate to such a vibrant non-church life and return to fellowship.
This model tends to operate in parts of the world where Christianity is under persecution. While it is true that true faith under pressure produces resurrection life, why wait for things to get worse when we can combine now?
There is little opportunity for Church leaders to step outside traditional thinking and grapple with the issues being raised here let alone implement such change.
That change can however happen from initiatives that you and I make. I invite you to pray about who you can meet with on a regular basis to pray together and with God’s direction begin to combine together as we read in the early chapters of Acts.
 

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What a well thought out post. I do agree with a lot of your points but I think there are bigger issues at play here. The church in and of itself is divided among different denominations. We as a group, have allowed this to happen. "You don't agree with my theology, well I'll start a new church!" The love of truth has been replaced with acceptance of different scriptural interpretations and faith practices. Instead of sticking together to find, debate and research to find common ground, we have divided ourselves. A divided structure cannot stand.

I am one of those people who left the church and it's because I'm tired of coming across luke-warm, hypocritical people who call themselves "Christian". Pastors who stand on a stage and preach about love, walking with Christ and a need to spread the gospel, while the second he's done preaching, he leaves to go watch the football game. The church claims they help the homeless due to their church run 2nd hand store, but when I send the homeless TO them for supplies, they are rejected and turned away. Homeless, who show up for food during a church potluck are escorted off property from security.

This isn't just about getting together to pray with others, when atheists have better fruit than a lot of "Christians". There is no strict order anymore. The founding 12 would get together and make sure all are in agreement when imposing rules and then they taught the new church leaders that Paul started, to be just as strict. The rampant false teachers, false prophets, pride centered organizations are allowed to continue unhindered. Until we clean up the church mess that we started, there is NO way we as a group can go back how the original intent of the church was supposed to be when we can't even agree theologically.
 
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I think it’s good you’re looking at things objectively and considering a different approach to address the problems we face. There won’t be a one-size fits all solution and you’ll need to be mindful of the demographic you’re working with and their related needs, skills, seasons, etc.

In my opinion, change begins at home and that’s the first leg of discourse that must occur before you speak to a group, church and so on. What’s the familial position? How will you get involved and adjust your responsibilities in light of the project? What can you take on and what would be beyond you? Some families had these conversations. But for those who haven’t it’s important to be aligned and respectful of one another‘s interests and responsibilities. Don’t overcommit yourself or loved ones and do all things in order.

My relatives combatted the shift by joining forces. They meet once a week with loved ones by phone and video for fellowship. Which includes bible study and prayer. They began the practice during the pandemic and continued it. This is the kind of example many can undertake who may be in seasons where children or related demands limit their time away from home.

This is similar to what I have in mind for my household and ideal for a pastoral setting. The closest correlation are the Amish who worship at home without changing location as they do. I consider our work as a service although it’s in the marketplace it’s public facing and influential. We’ve narrowed our focus to related sectors that mirror the ones we’re in as opportunities for good works and light.

We’ve been hands-on in the past and we’re transitioning to roles that utilize our gifts and talents more effectively. Which primarily pertains to leadership and funding through positions on boards, committees, etc. We have a deep commitment to patronage. Most particularly in the arts. I’d like to see greater access and programming made available to groups that wouldn’t encounter it otherwise. You’re not inundated with the themes and violence we experience as a norm in the media. That’s the wholesome entertainment young minds need in their impressionable years.

We’re also exploring the dialogue concerning the fertility crisis and listening to solutions from different sources. We have an internal position on the subject which reflects our beliefs and principles. But I don’t think we‘ll become ambassadors for the cause but opt to demonstrate our ethos through our choices in that area.

As a slow living practitioner it’s important our lives have a cadence that mirrors the Lord’s frequency. While others are filling their plate we’ve chosen to reduce our commitments and emphasize a reasonable work/life balance with comparable time for reflection and connections and helping others to follow suit.

We’re witnessing increasing inequities in our society and representations on social media. There’s a growing frustration from users of their inability to see people like themselves on the screen. No one wants to be normal or average anymore whatever that is. You be the judge. This could be a good fit for christians gifted in helps, mercy and counsel who excel in delivering emotional support to others.

I encourage everyone to commune with the Lord for insight on your service. There’s usually some element of diversity as we we move through different phases of life. What you did in the past may not continue in the present and a different assignment may await. Keep an open mind and remain in prayer. All things are possible through Him.

~bella
 
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