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About 8 years ago,my brother broke off our relationship. His reason was that, at the time, I was struggling and in great despair and had stopped going to church. I had not heard from him for about 7 or 8 years.
Recently, another sibling called him and demanded that he get in touch with me.
He called me to question why.
During our talk, I pointed out that he had departed from me due to my lack of church attendance.
He responded that he had never made such a comment.
He also told me he stopped going to church 6 years ago.
I know he was a of strong faith, well grounded in the word and adamant about church attendance.
I'd like to get so opinions regarding this.
 

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What did he turn to? Away from family and the lord to what. To be alone. Is he back in your life. I always get things wrong according to other people. That’s a pretty huge mistake on someone’s part. Are you back in church? Pursue him. (your brother). You both need the lord.
 
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About 8 years ago,my brother broke off our relationship. His reason was that, at the time, I was struggling and in great despair and had stopped going to church.
One possibility is a person can't handle hearing about stuff that is hard for you. It can be hard for that person, too.

So, trust Jesus to do what He desires with you.

"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (Matthew 11:29)

Jesus is almighty to be able to get rid of stuff which would get you into despair. And He can change us so we are like Him and loving like Him. This is what God does. God is powerful enough and spiritual enough.
 
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One possibility is a person can't handle hearing about stuff that is hard for you. It can be hard for that person, too.

So, trust Jesus to do what He desires with you.

"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (Matthew 11:29)

Jesus is almighty to be able to get rid of stuff which would get you into despair. And He can change us so we are like Him and loving like Him. This is what God does. God is powerful enough and spiritual enough.
Thank you.
 
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