My 55-year involvement in Christianity has brought me to an acceptance of a Christianity that is not only not literal but is accepting of considerable mystery, uncertainty and even doubt. It's a very broad and non-dogmatic Christianity that, to a literalist, might not qualify as Christianity at all.
I can understand people having doubts, it is rather settling in them to the point of spreading them as the way forward and toward God that I may take issue with. I'm one of the most understanding people I know, to a fault. (cough, pushover) I tend to be staunch stance, but I gained humility the hard way and I have zero condemnation for anyone, not even the worst of us. I don't think I could be so liberal as to allow anything, behaviorally speaking, that slaps a Christian label on themselves as Christian just because. I believe knowing them by their fruit is still a thing, regardless of their literalism or symbolic worldview concerning the Bible.
And yet, I'm sympathetic to the literalist mindset. Kierkegaard once described faith as a leap into 70,000 fathoms of water, and not everyone can do this. Some need to find their spot in the wading pool. I can understand the appeal of, and even the psychological need for, a religion that is rock solid and doubt-free, a reliable security blanket in a world of uncertainty. Moreover, not everyone has the same level of intelligence or emotional maturity or even the same desire or opportunity to pursue a quest such as I've undertaken. That's OK - there's nothing wrong with choosing the shallow end of the pool.
Having spent the last 22 years of my life sacrificed to research to the point of having nothing else to show but my conviction in the priceless peace of mind I've obtained in the knowledge of the truth of the Gospel of Lord Jesus in the Bible, I agree the shallow end of the pool is ok for many people, and while they think me out of my mind for being so dedicated to something they are overall unconcerned with I admire to some degree the faith they have in light of the grey spots and dark areas in their knowledge that I've been blessed to have. Blessed, because even if I did work like a beaten ox pulling a plow to get what I have, the resources, opportunity, and time had to be given by God to gain any of it. I, unlike them, felt a need to have it, and to know what is and is not at whatever cost.
I simply never have been ok with simply taking a risk assessment and jumping one way or the other on issues. I would rather die trying to find the truth than live not knowing for a certainty what reality contains apart from the delusions and the true map laid bare before me. I want the treasure and if it costs my life, so be it, I have nearly died more than a few times in life, looking down barrels, nearly starving to death, my way or the highway might cause one to really pay the price if they won't budge. I was simply spared by God, because by all odds I should have died trying. Some of the methods were unconventional to put it mildly.
At the end of the day though, I can't say I don't understand the sway of the influx equivalent to to the hoover dam of information that people are forced to consider, navigate, and swim through about life, the Bible, reality, and all that goes with. But I also feel that if I put my conviction on the shelf about things I paid so dearly to have, and yet still been given freely by God, then I'm not sharing the truth I'm blessed with, am selfish, and am an unloving hack at best. Therefore, I choose to push the envelope a bit rather than just live and let live, if the opportunity to move the needle presents itself in the form of dialogue, I consider it a responsibility to offer (though not convince).
The problem is that those who have the literalist mindset cannot tolerate those who don't share it. To preserve this rock-solid doubt-free faith, they HAVE TO BE correct. God HAS TO BE on their side. Folks like me HAVE TO BE wrong. It can be irritating, sure, but I try to remind myself that internet forums are closer to Monty Python skits than to actual discussions or debates.
This is a trend, and boy and how is it easy to do when you have the confidence of the truth under your belt, so to speak, yeah? The only separating factor is whether they come to the table in love or with an inflated ego that could make a demon blush.
Whether they seem loving or not, I believe many of us have good intentions and extremely poor execution. Sometimes during the debate their humanity does get the best of them, especially because the literalist stance is one more so held in child-like faith than not (self admittedly) and in that child-likeness sometimes a little child-ishness can rear its head. (although this is not an exclusive phenomenon) Doesn't make it ok, but the pattern exists and has for at least (from where I'm sitting) 20 years.
Believe me you, I know I've irritated more than one or two (hundred...) people who seem to me to conflate historical nonfiction prose, imo,with pure poetry and there are rarely two poets that have the same interpretation. (obviously not all are purely poetic)
I have some strong sense of compassion for disagreements when presented with similes and metaphors as theology, but I tend not to have it without objections with tenacity to the sentiment of Biblical allegory. I will make them fight to keep what they believe, just as I have had to do for the foundations I stand on. If they have a solid foundation, then it won't crack, and if they don't... alas, I consider it a privilege to break faulty foundations into the crumbling sand they truly are in nature. If they are built on the Rock of truth, there is nothing to worry about, and if they aren't, I will admit it is my goal to push them onto it. So long as I'm doing it in love. (1 Timothy 1:5) (1 Corinthians 13:2)