That's why a "gold dome" would make little difference, even less, in protecting the US.
Not really. That's like saying having a military is of no use because of countermeasures. It would work against missile and aircraft. That means an adversary would have to have another delivery system, shorten times for a possible response, or go with something other than nuclear weapons but something that would eliminate the ability for reprisal.
Smuggling in a nuclear weapon to a port or putting it on an aircraft would damage civilian targets. Terrible loss of life. Yet it bring to mind something about the Battle of Britain. The Germans initially targeted military assets for obviously reasons, then shifted to civilian. when military targets proved tougher than they thought. Terrible loss of life but it did nothing much to prevent Britain from defending itself. We all know how that played out.
Having an ABM defense created uncertainty with the big players. Could they be certain that they could eliminate the ability for a retaliatory strike? Can they make an undetectable boomer to park offshore? Can they make a hypersonic weapon that could reach the US before the system activates? Note that undetectable boomers and hypersonic weapons are expensive to develop and make, which puts them out of the reach of the smaller players.
(This is also pretty much the thought in the 1960s, except there were no hypersonic weapons then, and I think the boomers were seen as for retaliatory strikes being they were difficult to track).
A smaller player likely wouldn't be able to have a missile or aircraft get through. This is where speculation about cargo and shipping comes in, but now we're back to what's basically terrorist levels and not a full scale attack. Bad, and likely could trigger a full global nuclear war. But as it stands now, that's our only real response if an adversary like North Korea wanted to do something stupid.
Now, the possibility of limited destruction would be like saying the Maginot Line was completely useless because it couldn't stop, say, a sabotage team. Yet the Maginot Line was formidable enough that the Germans went around it and that was it's weakness. Or rather, the assumption that Germany wouldn't invade another country to get to France.
I'm not about to claim that an ABM system couldn't be defeated on the same level. That said, I don't think defeating it on the same scale the Germans defeated the Maginot Line would be as trivial, Maybe it wouldn't take undetectable boomers and hypersonic weapons. That's where brain storming ways it could be defeated is both interesting and enlightening.