Should we be in terror of God, no, God has grace, He has mercy. But neither should we be casual.
Agreed. Those who are His do not have to fear Him because they are honouring Him. He is their King. But within the believer, there should be an understanding that if they were to go back to permanently live in habitual sin, then they are in great, great danger. This understanding can keep us from sin. Prov 16:6 "And by the fear of the Lord
one departs from evil."
For many years, I was a casual Christian. So, I did not show God the respect He deserved, but one day, God showed me my sin for what it was, and I understood the reason for the cross so much more that I have changed. I now choose to honour Him as much as I can. I still go to a church that treats God very casually, but that is because where I live, there are no decent churches. So, I make the best of a bad situation, and I try to show others within the church what true respect is by modelling it in the hope that some may do the same.
Here is a list of things that can show we are not showing reverence for God as we should be:
20 Ways We Can Be Casual with God Instead of Reverent
1. Flippant or shallow prayer
Praying with little thought, no reverence, or just going through the motions, rather than humbly engaging with the living God.
2. Irreverent worship
Treating worship like a performance or emotional hype, rather than an offering of reverence, truth, and awe to a holy God.
3. Careless use of God’s name
Using God’s name in vain, in jokes, or casually online—forgetting the holiness of His name (Exodus 20:7).
4. Over-familiar language about God
Constantly referring to God as “Dad,” “buddy,” or “pal” in ways that strip Him of majesty and reduce Him to our level.
5. Casual dress with a casual attitude
Wearing anything to church or when serving in a way that reflects a broader heart attitude of “God doesn’t care”—not about clothes, but about honour.
6. Neglecting God’s Word
Choosing not to read the Bible regularly is like leaving love letters from God unopened. It reveals a lack of hunger and reverence for His voice.
7. Treating sin lightly
Using soft language for sin (“struggles,” “mistakes”), tolerating it, or joking about it instead of grieving it as rebellion against a holy God.
8. Presuming on God's grace
Thinking "God will forgive me anyway" while deliberately continuing in sin, which shows a lack of fear and love for His holiness.
9. Compartmentalized living
Acting reverent at church but living differently in private shows we don’t truly believe God is always present (Hebrews 4:13).
10. Treating church like a social club
Coming mainly to see friends, be entertained, or feel good—rather than to meet with God, hear His Word, and offer worship.
11. Distracted behaviour in church
Texting, chatting, arriving late, or leaving early during worship can reflect a heart that doesn't honour the sacredness of gathering before God.
12. Rushing or skipping prayer and worship
Squeezing God into the margins of life or skipping devotion time entirely reveals misplaced priorities.
13. Neglecting repentance
Refusing to confess or deal with sin, or ignoring the Spirit’s conviction, shows a hardened and casual heart (Psalm 51:17).
14. Serving with a wrong heart
Doing ministry out of obligation, pride, or routine rather than with holy fear and love for God.
15. Speaking lightly about hell, judgment, or holiness
Joking about these things numbs our hearts to their seriousness and can dishonour God’s justice.
16. Picking and choosing Scripture
Quoting only “comfort” verses while ignoring God’s commands, warnings, or calls to repentance treats the Bible like a buffet, not God's whole counsel.
17. Ignoring God’s presence in daily life
Living like God only matters on Sundays—failing to seek Him in decisions, give thanks, or walk with Him in everyday moments.
18. Lacking awe at God's creation and providence
Failing to praise God for His majesty in nature, answered prayer, or His work in our lives can be a sign of spiritual dullness.
19. Making God secondary to other loves
When comfort, career, hobbies, or relationships come first in our time and devotion, God is dishonoured.
20. Taking communion lightly
Approaching the Lord’s Table without examination, reverence, or understanding dishonours Christ’s sacrifice (1 Cor. 11:27–29).