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Do I need to have parents with no money at all for government to support me to give me money if I wanted to move to live on my own to pay for rent ..

mikeforjesus

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Do I need to have parents with no money at all for government to support me to give me money if I wanted to move to live on my own to pay for rent and can they support me until they provide services for people to help me to offer jobs to me.

I live in australia and my dad provided me a business of petrol station that will open soon in 6 months that I am looking forward to work but I wonder if it is a test from God if I will follow God plan because book of James says we ought not to boast I will do this tommorow but if the Lord wills.

Because whenever I trusted people I was left disappointed such as saying to go to uni is important but the world made it a dead end that there is no place for work for me in my field that just discriminated against me to purposely make requirements harder that need connections and better mark.

But I felt it could be because I had made career an idol that it was being put before my relationship with God.I wonder if this business will be the same that it will not work out because God wants me to witness that He can provide our needs and I only have 1 chance to follow God plan for life to obey His leading now to go now and seek Him to support my needs.

I said to my dad is what I am seeking to accept help with business of petrol station a contradiction of if you seek the kingdom all these things will be added.

But my dad says God is providing me through him that God gave him that maybe he would lose not to have if I wasnt seeking first the kingdom which seems right that you are supposed to accept help from your parents but I am thinking maybe it is not God will that God wants me to show for His sake that I will trust Him to follow His plan for Him to open doors to be independent.
 
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From what you say it sounds like God is providing for you through your father. The idea that our best path in life is to cut ourselves off from family may come more from the world than from God. We are born and raised in families by God's design. This is how we learn real love and the self sacrifice our parents give us. From this we can learn to set aside selfishness ourselves when we have children.

Satan has been pretty effective in his centuries long program to diminish families. It sounds like you have a good one. You may wish to show your gratitude and thank your father.
 
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for Him to open doors to be independent.
If you become what you mean by independent . . . would you be depending on yourself????

And might you be isolating yourself, instead of developing in how to share and care with others??

God is our Father, and Jesus His Son, and the Holy Spirit . . . God is the family Being of love.

So, yes it can be good to share with your family, in order to develop your life.

Jesus sits right by His Father in heaven.
 
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