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Disappointment , heartbreak, anger

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I've been trying to busy myself but I still think about my last guy. He was everything I ever wanted but it didn't work out. I still carry anger and bitterness about thr situation.

I've repented and prayed it away and that does nothing.

I also feel angry and bitter towards God bc I feel he doesn't want me to be happy or that's how it seems bc the things I want elude me.

Idk , I just feel heartbroken. Now I'm sure I don't want anyone else bc no one else will be as amazing as he was.

I don't know how to look at God. I'm certainly mad at him.
 

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Stop blaming God for your problems. This is the most difficult dating market we've ever had and men are putting their foot down. You're a young woman with two children and no husband but you're expecting someone else to provide for them.

God didn't tell you to fornicate. You did that of your own volition although you weren't in good straights with the first. Your inability to control yourself is the problem.

Accept your medicine and stop blaming God for the men who don't choose you or stay the course. My daughter is 33 and I will never accept the same. I expect her to present a man that never married or had children.
 
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Stop blaming God for your problems. This is the most difficult dating market we've ever had and men are putting their foot down. You're a young woman with two children and no husband but you're expecting someone else to provide for them.

God didn't tell you to fornicate. You did that of your own volition although you weren't in good straights with the first. Your inability to control yourself is the problem.

Accept your medicine and stop blaming God for the men who don't choose you or stay the course. My daughter is 33 and I will never accept the same. I expect her to present a man that never married or had children.
Lol girl me having kids isn't the problem. My last guy also had kids and before I met my kids dad h3 didn't have kids but he was still a crappy person. Not having kids doesn't make you a trophy your character can still be what floats in the toilet.

Idk why you bought kids into this bc I did not once bring them up. I said I was heart broken bc my last relationship didn't work out specifically.He had kids and his character was amazing than most.

But it seems you think the fact I have kids it makes me low hanging fruit which sheds light on your judgmental mindset and heart. Bc I LITERALLY said nothing about kids nor did I say anything about expecting anyone to provide for me and them.

That's why I'm in nursing school. But your response spoke volumes. I don't want you speak to you anymore. Thank you.
 
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