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We can learn so much from the life of Richard A. ‘Dick’ Ruth, a self-proclaimed ‘feeble evangelizer of Jesus Christ.’

Richard A. “Dick” Ruth born June 13, 1924 — August 20, 2024 of Johnstown, Pennsylvania alongside his wife Dorothy.
Richard A. “Dick” Ruth born June 13, 1924 — August 20, 2024 of Johnstown, Pennsylvania alongside his wife Dorothy. (photo: Screenshots / Richard Ruth Tribute Video)

Although Richard A. “Dick” Ruth died on Aug. 20, after a century of living, his obituary has been on the hearts and minds of countless Catholics.

Written by himself, it was a work in progress for the latter part of his life, as he worked to make it most perfect: embodying his quick wit and humor, his devotion to God and the unborn, his love of friends and family.

Dick begins by pointing out a truth many are slow to ascertain:

“Dick’s soul did not go shooting straight up to Heaven like everybody else’s does, but made a detour to Purgatory where he will remain until he is purified enough to stand before his all-perfect maker.”
Never having the chance to meet this darling soul who exemplified such a love for others in a now viral obituary, one can only surmise from reading it that he had many friends. Marriage came much later in life for Dick, who spent his 65th birthday celebrating his wedding with his bride Dorothy, whom he admired for many reasons, including:

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I like Spike Milligan's epitaph inscription.

Dúirt mé leat go raibh mé breoite
Irish for "I told you I was sick"
My dad having Irish descent, we heard this one.
The Irish are hysterical. Especially the old time comediennes. Not referring strictly to obits.


Michie said:
“Dick’s soul did not go shooting straight up to Heaven like everybody else’s does, but made a detour to Purgatory where he will remain until he is purified enough to stand before his all-perfect maker.”

Truth. My own family refuses to acknowledge purgatory is real.
Well, they said, mom and dad were good people.
So I wasn't the most popular in the group. Come to think of it, middle child - per business as usual.

I should get something like "Pray for me, or I will be visiting you."
 
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My dad having Irish descent, we heard this one.
The Irish are hysterical. Especially the old time comediennes. Not referring strictly to obits.




Truth. My own family refuses to acknowledge purgatory is real.
Well, they said, mom and dad were good people.
So I wasn't the most popular in the group. Come to think of it, middle child - per business as usual.

I should get something like "Pray for me, or I will be visiting you."
Oh my gosh! Lol!
 
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