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I have very severe and debilitating schizophrenia

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And I'm afraid. If you could help me by praying for me.
My life is a joke and a mess. And I made it into an even bigger mess recently. I feel spiritually destroyed. I think God supernaturally connected me to another person that I was supposed to be happy with. But I ruined it by having evil thoughts about this person.
 

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And I'm afraid. If you could help me by praying for me.
My life is a joke and a mess. And I made it into an even bigger mess recently. I feel spiritually destroyed. I think God supernaturally connected me to another person that I was supposed to be happy with. But I ruined it by having evil thoughts about this person.
You might want to talk to a pastor/priest about this. It is nothing that you did, and God will never put you in a bad spot to destroy you. I will pray for you.
 
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And I'm afraid. If you could help me by praying for me.
My life is a joke and a mess. And I made it into an even bigger mess recently. I feel spiritually destroyed. I think God supernaturally connected me to another person that I was supposed to be happy with. But I ruined it by having evil thoughts about this person.
Prayed for you headphones!

I would also like to kindly suggest that in addition to the prayers and encouragement you receive on this post, that you would invest time in reviewing one of your previous posts and ponder again what I believe is some very excellent advice. And the invite to walk with you on your journey toward healing remains!

Whoever might be telling you that what you are dealing with is somehow unique to you or beyond healing - is a liar. The enemy lies to all of us. We choose whether to remain in bondage to him, or to allow Jesus to set us free.


Luke 4:18 NIV

“The Spirit of the Lord is on me,
because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners
and recovery of sight for the blind,
to set the oppressed free,
to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

God bless!
Joseph

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Like the previous poster said, Jesus can help, when Jesus was here on earth physically he dealt with 'mental illnesses', half of his ministry was to deal with spiritual problems, later He sent The Holy Spirit, now we can be free too.
 
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Like the previous poster said, Jesus can help, when Jesus was here on earth physically he dealt with 'mental illnesses', half of his ministry was to deal with spiritual problems, later He sent The Holy Spirit, now we can be free too.
I try prayer to him but I feel like my hearing is dull... after I committed these sins.. will I ever hear God clearly again?
 
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I try prayer to him but I feel like my hearing is dull... after I committed these sins.. will I ever hear God clearly again?

If you could find some people with the Holy spirit, that could pray or support even do deliverance maybe, or even going to a church where God is present can help, even if you don't get spiritual help from someone.
 
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And I'm afraid. If you could help me by praying for me.
My life is a joke and a mess. And I made it into an even bigger mess recently. I feel spiritually destroyed. I think God supernaturally connected me to another person that I was supposed to be happy with. But I ruined it by having evil thoughts about this person.
If one's foot gets an infection, it is easy to consider that part of our body as separate from everything else. But if your brain is tricking you, it must be so much harder to have perspective. Your title indicates that you have schizophrenia. This is a difficult illness that needs specialized treatment. I will pray for you, but just like if you had broken bone, you need to get prompt medical attention.

I don't know you personally, but as much as an internet stranger can, I'm sending you love and heartfelt care and concern. God loves you more than I ever can.

Best wishes,
KT
 
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I have schizoaffective disorder which means that I have symptoms of both schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. I completely understand where you're coming from because I've had psychotic episodes before where I've completely lost touch with reality (although not as much recently since I've been placed on Latuda it does a good job at dealing with my psychotic symptoms).

Although im more often manic than psychotic I do get psychotic from time to time and when I lose touch with reality I completely lose it. Oftentimes I don't know who I am or who anyone or anything else is when I get psychotic and I often have memory loss of the times where I'm psychotic.

I understand being so out of touch with reality that a woman leaves you too. My wife has never left me but, she should have. I once was so psychotic and out of touch with reality that I believed her to be Satan himself and attacked her. Had we not had a dog at the time and had our dog not defended her and got me to stop I don't know what would have happened. Since I attacked her and I attacked several nurses at the hospital for that psychotic episode I had to spend a week and a half in a psych ward recovering. Anyway, my wife didn't leave me for the attack because I attacked her without knowing any better and I wasn't my true self. I'm NEVER violent towards her in my right mind and that was the one and only time i had ever gotten physical with her. I realize you never got physical with your girlfriend and you only lost her for being out of touch with reality but it's the same idea. I regretted attacking her so much once I realized what I was doing was wrong and once I realized that she wasn't the devil.

It's just really hard I know. Unfortunately there's no cure for schizophrenia but people with mental disorders have much better lives than they did in the 50s when my great aunts and uncles had mental problems (it kinda runs in the family)! My only advice to you is to be as close to God as you possibly can. He is your friend and refuge and understands more than anyone else ever will exactly what you're going through. Hopefully one day we will all get the answers of why mental disorders exist in the first place answered. Hopefully.
 
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It is not common for one with schizophrenia to consider that there is a condition that has to be managed. That you acknowledge the condition is a good indicator that you will be able to improve. Medication can be a critical component in making things better. That you have a humble heart is also a good indicator that you may be able to work out a manageable state.

If you can identify those periods where thoughts can be deceptive, it might be a good idea to develop some strategies such not allowing yourself to act during these periods or at least delay decisions until they can be made more accurately. You may want to develop some verbal filters such that before you speak that you consider if what you want to say would hurt someone. This speech delay can give a chance to catch something that you might regret.
 
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"Unfortunately there's no cure for schizophrenia"

Says who? The ones who said for decades that bipolar and schizophrenia were the result of misfires of neurotransmitters and/or unbalanced serotonin levels? All the psychiatrists who claimed it was so but never order brain scans to support their claim? The very ones who pronounced a death sentence by telling us that we will always have the disease and will always require medication? Medication that keeps "improving" as the last one wasn't doing the job after all (at least for a large segment of us).

All meds ever did for me, personally, was sedate me and make me a fretful zombie emotionally. That is God's best for my life? If they help somebody else then praise God. Not for me, brother, not after 30 years of frightening side effects and NO improvement.

So anywho, the latest news from experts now is that there is absolutely NO evidence that mental illness has anything to do whatsoever with either neurotransmitters or serotonin levels. Decades of being guinea pigs for the obscenely wealthy physchiatric community and the pharmaceutical industry down the drain. Thanks alot!

As for no hope of a cure, tell that to me and other healed believers here, and tell that to Jesus. Following is what He has to say about it. It's up to us to decide if He is a liar, or to stand on His Word till He does what He promises.

And He does EXACTLY what He promises.

Always praying for you, Neo, that you'll embrace the latter for yourself. We who believe are NOT going to remain helpless victims to a world blinded and deceived by the god of this world. Instead we renounce victimhood and clothe ourselves in who we really are in Christ - more than conquerers! Join in, bro!

Just one note first, that I learned through the healing process. It is the very fear itself of another breakdown that is most responsible for the illness. When one is healed, that fear is GONE and never returns! That is the final evidence that one is truly healed.

What was and is the Source of that healing? His Word supplanting the devil's lies. Really just that simple, friend.

As for our brains, He made each unique, and what we consider abnormalities are actually assets He is perfectly able to use for His purposes, if we rise to the level of thankfulness for exactly the way He made us. I thought He couldn't see the resentment I hid inside - from Him and myself, until I came across this bit of profound Scripture:

Romans 9:20-21 NIV

"But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’” Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?"

Confessing it to Him allowed Him to remove that element of enmity between us - a MAJOR boon to healing mind and spirit and enabling a much, much deeper level of fellowship with Him. And not so coincidently, my anger toward others subsided as well. The only one ever to blame, was the devil and myself.

Back to healing... ask the Lord for the faith to believe and walk in His promises, over and over, and He will do it. Dare to invest a mustard seed and He will make it grow to be confident and powerful. And once you have looked back and observed how He did it, you'll conclude that He is BRILLIANT!

2 Timothy 1:7 NKJV

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

Phillipians 4:6-7 NKJV

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."

1 Corinthians 2:10-16 NIV

[Punchline at the end - we have the "Mind of Christ" if we feed on His Word and pray in the Spirit every day. True for what ails ANY believer, afflicted by mental illness or anything else.]

"And so it was with me, brothers and sisters. When I came to you, I did not come with eloquence or human wisdom as I proclaimed to you the testimony about God. For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. I came to you in weakness with great fear and trembling. My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power."

"We do, however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing. No, we declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began. None of the rulers of this age understood it, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. However, as it is written:

“What no eye has seen,
what no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived” -
the things God has prepared for those who love him—
these are the things God has revealed to us by his Spirit."

"The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words. The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments, for,
“Who has known the mind of the Lord
so as to instruct him?”
But we have the mind of Christ."

Claim it, bro! God bless.

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"Unfortunately there's no cure for schizophrenia"

Says who? The ones who said for decades that bipolar and schizophrenia were the result of misfires of neurotransmitters and/or unbalanced serotonin levels? All the psychiatrists who claimed it was so but never order brain scans to support their claim? The very ones who pronounced a death sentence by telling us that we will always have the disease and will always require medication? Medication that keeps "improving" as the last one wasn't doing the job after all (at least for a large segment of us).

All meds ever did for me, personally, was sedate me and make me a fretful zombie emotionally. That is God's best for my life? If they help somebody else then praise God. Not for me, brother, not after 30 years of frightening side effects and NO improvement.

So anywho, the latest news from experts now is that there is absolutely NO evidence that mental illness has anything to do whatsoever with either neurotransmitters or serotonin levels. Decades of being guinea pigs for the obscenely wealthy physchiatric community and the pharmaceutical industry down the drain. Thanks alot!

As for no hope of a cure, tell that to me and other healed believers here, and tell that to Jesus. Following is what He has to say about it. It's up to us to decide if He is a liar, or to stand on His Word till He does what He promises.

And He does EXACTLY what He promises.

Always praying for you, Neo, that you'll embrace the latter for yourself. We who believe are NOT going to remain helpless victims to a world blinded and deceived by the god of this world. Instead we renounce victimhood and clothe ourselves in who we really are in Christ - more than conquerers! Join in, bro!

Just one note first, that I learned through the healing process. It is the very fear itself of another breakdown that is most responsible for the illness. When one is healed, that fear is GONE and never returns! That is the final evidence that one is truly healed.

What was and is the Source of that healing? His Word supplanting the devil's lies. Really just that simple, friend.

As for our brains, He made each unique, and what we consider abnormalities are actually assets He is perfectly able to use for His purposes, if we rise to the level of thankfulness for exactly the way He made us. I thought He couldn't see the resentment I hid inside - from Him and myself, until I came across this bit of profound Scripture:

Romans 9:20-21 NIV

"But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’” Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?"

Confessing it to Him allowed Him to remove that element of enmity between us - a MAJOR boon to healing mind and spirit and enabling a much, much deeper level of fellowship with Him. And not so coincidently, my anger toward others subsided as well. The only one ever to blame, was the devil and myself.

Back to healing... ask the Lord for the faith to believe and walk in His promises, over and over, and He will do it. Dare to invest a mustard seed and He will make it grow to be confident and powerful. And once you have looked back and observed how He did it, you'll conclude that He is BRILLIANT!

2 Timothy 1:7 NKJV

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

Phillipians 4:6-7 NKJV

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."

1 Corinthians 2:10-16 NIV

[Punchline at the end - we have the "Mind of Christ" if we feed on His Word and pray in the Spirit every day. True for what ails ANY believer, afflicted by mental illness or anything else.]

"And so it was with me, brothers and sisters. When I came to you, I did not come with eloquence or human wisdom as I proclaimed to you the testimony about God. For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. I came to you in weakness with great fear and trembling. My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power."

"We do, however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing. No, we declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began. None of the rulers of this age understood it, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. However, as it is written:

“What no eye has seen,
what no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived” -
the things God has prepared for those who love him—
these are the things God has revealed to us by his Spirit."

"The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words. The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments, for,
“Who has known the mind of the Lord
so as to instruct him?”
But we have the mind of Christ."

Claim it, bro! God bless.

biblegateway.com
Tell me how to become free of schizophrenia. I've had it for 9 years and I'm losing hope.
 
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Tell me how to become free of schizophrenia. I've had it for 9 years and I'm losing hope.
Have you been reading the Bible and doing what God's word says to do?

This has helped me a lot.

"casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you " (1 Peter 5:7)

I have trusted God to decide what to do with me. And because I am trusting Him, I do not worry or fear about what becomes of me.

One basic practical thing I do is pay attention to what is happening in me. And if a feeling or emotion or imagination has power to make me anti-Bible or anti-love, I treat this like a sin problem > I trust God to forgive me and correct me.

And I do not trust or believe anything in me which is unkind to me or it has me not loving another person.

So, how does this work for me? If paranoia has me cursing someone with suspicion, this is not blessing a problem person the way Jesus commands us to love any and all people. So, I need to submit to God for correction so I am loving the person in my paranoid imagination.

And pray with *hope* for all God is able to do with that person.

Because > > >

Love "hopes all things," we have in 1 Corinthians 13:7.

So, if I am not loving anyone the way Jesus wants, this is not a physical medical problem, but a spiritual sin problem.

My paranoid trouble does not go all the way away, right away; I understand that this is because my unloving paranoid stuff is being allowed by how I can still not be like Jesus in my character > I still can fail to love and bless people immediately when they come to mind to be a problem for me. My character, then, is making me able to go along with paranoid stuff.

But if I offer myself to God, right in the middle of paranoid stuff, He can have me loving and praying for the imagined person. And then is when that imagination can flee!

Because when it is Satan bringing problem people to mind, he does not bring them for love and prayer.

"Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you." (James 4:7)

"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
 
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Tell me how to become free of schizophrenia. I've had it for 9 years and I'm losing hope.

God does not want the suffering that is found in so many. For example, cancer. But He does give us smart people who can figure out ways to make things better. I am not aware of ways to become free of schizophrenia, but there are lots of ways to make the situation better.

So while I agree that sticking with God is very important, I want to be sure that you understand that if you continue to suffer with schizophrenia, this does NOT mean that you have done something wrong, or that you are not praying enough etc etc.

Best wishes,
KT
 
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Tell me how to become free of schizophrenia. I've had it for 9 years and I'm losing hope.
Hey, headphones, would you be interested in having a conversation with me via pm?
 
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Hey, headphones, would you be interested in having a conversation with me via pm?
Yes
Hey, headphones, would you be interested in having a conversation with me via pm?
Yes, please do send me a PM. But I tend to forget to log into this forum. Perhaps we could use some other platform?
 
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