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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?

I have a degree in psychology (graduated nearly 5.5 years ago) but feel like I know nothing about the subject except for some few random facts. I feel like it's a waste of $30,000.
 
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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?

I have a degree in psychology (graduated nearly 5.5 years ago) but feel like I know nothing about the subject except for some few random facts. I feel like it's a waste of $30,000.
Do you currently work in the field of psychology?
 
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The biological basis of memory formation and loss is still being researched. There's no simple answer, but this provides an interesting overview of the state of research as of about 10 years ago:

 
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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?

I have a degree in psychology (graduated nearly 5.5 years ago) but feel like I know nothing about the subject except for some few random facts. I feel like it's a waste of $30,000.
They are still there in the subconscious memory when they are not in active memory, and oftentimes all it takes is a short reminder to get them to resurface.

God Bless.
 
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Your brain is an efficient piece of machinery. That includes getting rid of stuff it considers isn't being used.


Skill decay refers to the loss or decay of trained or acquired skills (or knowledge) after periods of nonuse. Skill decay is particularly salient and problematic in situations where individuals receive initial training on knowledge and skills that they may not be required to use or exercise for extended periods of time.

Reading between the lines, if RileyG hasn't been using the skills gained in the psychology course then they are going to fade.

On the other hand if he'd been employed in that industry since gaining his degree, he'd have been constantly using those skills and more than likely gained new ones due to the need to keep up with changes.

The classic case in my opinion is foreign languages. There are probably millions of westerners who studied a language for a few years at school but then never used it. They might remember some vocabulary they repeatedly memorised, but most of it has receded into the background as the brain isn't going to allocate memory for something it doesn't use.

Yet elements of that language are most likely in subconscious memory. If the same people decided to relearn the same language, they'd probably have an easier time of it than trying to learn a completely different language.
 
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Another thing that fascinates me about memory is the "Cold Case Squad". You know, those brain cells that jump into action when there's some forgotten piece of information that you know you know, but for the life of you, you just can't force yourself to remember it. That's when the CCS jumps into action. And then at some completely random moment... three days later, the information just pops into your head. But at that point nobody cares, and you're just left wondering where in the heck that was when you needed it.

It's like, has my brain been working on this the whole time? And what other useless bits of information does it have squirreled away in some .zip file somewhere, just waiting for the CCS to go dig it out? Plus the older I get the more I depend on those guys. What happened to that young guy who used to be able to pull the information up at a moments notice? Where's he? Obviously he's gotten slow, fat, and lazy. I'm just worried that at some point in the not too distant future he's gonna retire completely, and I'll be left with just the CCS poking around in the dark corners of what used to be my thumb tack sharp mind. And people will be wondering why these seemingly incoherent comments keep spewing out of my mouth. I'm not senile, me and the CCS are just pacing ourselves. I'm giving you absolutely brilliant answers, you just have to figure out what the questions were. I'm old, I don't have time to be worried about clarity, I've got important information to pass on... you all should be writing these things down. There's Nobel Prize stuff in here... pay attention.
 
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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?

I have a degree in psychology (graduated nearly 5.5 years ago) but feel like I know nothing about the subject except for some few random facts. I feel like it's a waste of $30,000.

Sorry, what you say? I forgot!
 
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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?

I have a degree in psychology (graduated nearly 5.5 years ago) but feel like I know nothing about the subject except for some few random facts. I feel like it's a waste of $30,000.
Psychology must be much more difficult than
physics, ( see R. Feynman) as there's still next to
nothing known.

And I think it somehow we attracts a lot of fakes
and incomprtents. I took one undergrad psych
course, at NYU.

it was painfully awful. The shole test said next to
nothing and that little could have gone into a pamphlet.

If you got a job the money isn't totally wasted.
 
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Psychology must be much more difficult than
physics, ( see R. Feynman) as there's still next to
nothing known.

And I think it somehow we attracts a lot of fakes
and incomprtents. I took one undergrad psych
course, at NYU.

it was painfully awful. The shole test said next to
nothing and that little could have gone into a pamphlet.

If you got a job the money isn't totally wasted.
Interesting. I took a physics course in high school (over ten years ago), got a D, and found it very difficult. I retained nothing. I got mostly A's in psychology because it was mostly memorization/application. Not much math necessary.
 
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Interesting. I took a physics course in high school (over ten years ago), got a D, and found it very difficult. I retained nothing. I got mostly A's in psychology because it was mostly memorization/application. Not much math necessary.
Do you not understand why I said what I said?
 
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Why do memories so rapidly decay, except for those that have the strongest emotions attached to them?
I must have a lot of strong emotions. Some people say that I remember everything. Many people don't believe me; but I can remember all the way back to 1 yr old.

When I was an adult, I visited the apartment where we lived for a year when I was two. I told my mother. I also told her that the building was no longer there. By this time we had moved numerous times, and had lived in 3 different states. She asked me who told me of that apartment. My mother hated liars; and she raised me that way. She loved me for my honesty; but she didn't believe that I had remembered living there.

I gave her very detailed information about the house, the contents of the house, and events that took place. The details of what was in the house even included the colors and the hue of the wooden beads on my playpen. She was still skeptical until I drew her a floor plan of the apartment that no longer existed.

It was a four story row home in a big city.

After she believed me; I told her that I remembered something that just didn't fit reality. I told her that I remembered a horse that lived on the first floor of the house. She said that there was a horse; that the first floor was a stable. She said that the old man who rented to her, still kept a horse for transportation in the early sixties.

I remember all sorts of little details that really don't seem to have much, if any, emotion attached to them.
 
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I must have a lot of strong emotions. Some people say that I remember everything. Many people don't believe me; but I can remember all the way back to 1 yr old.

When I was an adult, I visited the apartment where we lived for a year when I was two. I told my mother. I also told her that the building was no longer there. By this time we had moved numerous times, and had lived in 3 different states. She asked me who told me of that apartment. My mother hated liars; and she raised me that way. She loved me for my honesty; but she didn't believe that I had remembered living there.

I gave her very detailed information about the house, the contents of the house, and events that took place. The details of what was in the house even included the colors and the hue of the wooden beads on my playpen. She was still skeptical until I drew her a floor plan of the apartment that no longer existed.

It was a four story row home in a big city.

After she believed me; I told her that I remembered something that just didn't fit reality. I told her that I remembered a horse that lived on the first floor of the house. She said that there was a horse; that the first floor was a stable. She said that the old man who rented to her, still kept a horse for transportation in the early sixties.

I remember all sorts of little details that really don't seem to have much, if any, emotion attached to them.
That’s incredible
 
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