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Why do christian women only want tall guys?

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Yes anything under 190cm is consider to be small nowdays. myself i am 185 cm which is average. why is average not enough anymore?
185? That's really tall man. I think the problem, like most people pointed out, is the environment you live in. Another reason could be that they see something in you they don't like but don't want to come out straight to tell you, so instead they use your height as an excuse.
 
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I wouldn't want to be very tall. I reckon you start approaching the realms of the uncomfortable after 6'4". I think I'm about right at 6' even, or a shade under. You get the best of both worlds in a sense. You can enjoy being tall to some, whilst still being able to lay on a bed vertically. I'd rather be a bit shorter than very tall.
Even at 6'2" things start to get a little inconvenient. I wouldn't want to be any taller.
 
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Yes anything under 190cm is consider to be small nowdays. myself i am 185 cm which is average. why is average not enough anymore?
Most women have an innate desire to feel protected and sheltered - physically - by their man. That's less likely to occur if the woman is larger than the man. It's really that simple, at least in my opinion. It *is* possible for women to be attracted to, fall in love with, marry, etc, men who are shorter than they are, but I don't think it's common.

That said, 185cm is actually rather tall. Taller than average.
 
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Most women have an innate desire to feel protected and sheltered - physically - by their man. That's less likely to occur if the woman is larger than the man. It's really that simple, at least in my opinion. It *is* possible for women to be attracted to, fall in love with, marry, etc, men who are shorter than they are, but I don't think it's common.

That said, 185cm is actually rather tall. Taller than average.

This is why some of us shorter men may as well look for a short, petite 4'10 - 5'0" Asian lady, that way there's no doubt they'd not have a height requirement. :)
 
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This is why some of us shorter men may as well look for a short, petite 4'10 - 5'0" Asian lady, that way there's no doubt they'd not have a height requirement. :)
Or you could just look for a woman who likes you for who you are, and not place a bunch of requirements upon her before you've even met her, since you have no idea who she might end up being :)
 
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Or you could just look for a woman who likes you for who you are, and not place a bunch of requirements upon her before you've even met her, since you have no idea who she might end up being :)
That would be quite one sided, leaving the decision only in the hands of women.

Both men and women have some requirements.
 
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That would be quite one sided, leaving the decision only in the hands of women.

Both men and women have some requirements.
You're misunderstanding me. I didn't say that the man has no free will or decision making in the process, lol. But his assertion that his ONLY chance is to find a very short woman assumes that no woman over five feet tall would be interested in him, and that's a silly thing to do, since he doesn't know who his future partner might be.
 
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You're misunderstanding me. I didn't say that the man has no free will or decision making in the process, lol. But his assertion that his ONLY chance is to find a very short woman assumes that no woman over five feet tall would be interested in him, and that's a silly thing to do, since he doesn't know who his future partner might be.
Maybe he agrees with "women should be shorter" paradigm and so he finds Asian girls to be both more attractive and a larger pool of women who will be attracted to him.
 
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Maybe he agrees with "women should be shorter" paradigm and so he finds Asian girls to be both more attractive and a larger pool of women who will be attracted to him.
Judging by some of the other posts I've seen from this person, I don't think that's the case.
 
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You're misunderstanding me. I didn't say that the man has no free will or decision making in the process, lol. But his assertion that his ONLY chance is to find a very short woman assumes that no woman over five feet tall would be interested in him, and that's a silly thing to do, since he doesn't know who his future partner might be.

I was being facetious to reach a point, not that I actually meant it. lol
 
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I was being facetious to reach a point, not that I actually meant it. lol
Yes, I know :D I wasn't taking you literally. Though I know you talk a lot about all women demanding taller men in relationships.
 
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I know guys used to stay at home cooking and women went out to hunt grizzly bears..

Then the liberals came and screwed everything up. :mad:
Actually the guys hunted AND cooked. THEN the liberals came & screwed everything up :p

I'm joking, everyone.
 
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I think AI human-like men and women will be the future especially if this trend of antagonism between the human sexes continues and neither can be satisfied by the other. And I honestly accept it. I know that the Bible says that the traditional model that works is one man and one woman, but because of social engineering by not so Christ-like people that have agendas and whole host of other factors like demographic shifts, that ship has sailed and is never coming back. The Bible might have something to say on the position of human-like AI and sexual relationships with them, but for a lot of people it is irrelevant because we are desperate. Christianity or the Bible doesn't really provide a completely satisfactory answer to this paradox, except saying "either sin and possibly be damned to Hell or accept being single for eternity".
 
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