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if you want a wife, how should she be?

i want brown hair, harmonic face and a femenine body, a skinny body but not similar to men but girly
then humble, Christian, honest, peaceful, i don't want fights
 

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Read all of Proverbs 31:10


Note this verse;

She opens her mouth in wisdom;
kindly instruction is on her tongue/

She watches over* the affairs of her household,
and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband, too, praises her: Proverbs 31:26-28
 
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Read all of Proverbs 31:10


Note this verse;

She opens her mouth in wisdom;
kindly instruction is on her tongue/

She watches over* the affairs of her household,
and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband, too, praises her: Proverbs 31:26-28
Maybe too perfect
 
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if you want a wife, how should she be?

i want brown hair, harmonic face and a femenine body, a skinny body but not similar to men but girly
then humble, Christian, honest, peaceful, i don't want fights
Is this all the qualities you seek in her?

I would want a woman who carries the marks of Galatians 5:22-23, who is self-confident and open to criticism (as well as constructive in her criticism of me and my life choices).
 
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if you want a wife, how should she be?
Did Jesus say that both marriage, and being single, is a gift from the Father in heaven, gracious and merciful and perfect wisdom He Has btw. ?
 
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Is this all the qualities you seek in her?

I would want a woman who carries the marks of Galatians 5:22-23, who is self-confident and open to criticism (as well as constructive in her criticism of me and my life choices).
I just need a few things
 
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I just need a few things
Seek a Christian wife, certainly. But besides that, what do you need?
What about love? Supposing you fell in love with someone who was not slim, or who had black hair - or skin?
Supposing you met someone who filled all your requirements, but who was a widow with small children? Or who lived a long distance away, or who had an overseas ministry?
 
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Seek a Christian wife, certainly. But besides that, what do you need?
We need someone who can commit to staying married no matter what. Someone that has the love of God in them. Otherwise, it is better not to get married if the marriage is not going to last for the rest of our lives.
 
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We need someone who can commit to staying married no matter what. Someone that has the love of God in them. Otherwise, it is better not to get married if the marriage is not going to last for the rest of our lives.
Ideally.
But marriages break down. Unforeseen events, like the birth of a disabled child, or severe illness, put a strain on couples and sometimes they separate. Sometimes one partner is tempted, falls away from the faith, walks out or whatever. It's not great and people don't have that intention, but it happens.
I would hope that no one goes into marriage thinking, "it's only for a short time."
 
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if you want a wife, how should she be?

i want brown hair, harmonic face and a femenine body, a skinny body but not similar to men but girly
then humble, Christian, honest, peaceful, i don't want fights
:crosseo:
 
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I would hope that no one goes into marriage thinking, "it's only for a short time."
A tangent sort of, from the op, but most people on earth, even those who in name are called "christian", believe all their lives that marriage may only be temporary, and if they want to get out of a marriage, they can do so and still somehow be pleasing to God. That's one of the best and biggest lies of the enemy.
 
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if you want a wife, how should she be?

i want brown hair, harmonic face and a femenine body, a skinny body but not similar to men but girly
then humble, Christian, honest, peaceful, i don't want fights
I understand physical attraction, but why are you listing these first and then her character? What happens in old age when her hair turns white; her face sags from lost teeth and wrinkles; when her feminine body loses its shape; when her skinny body gets plump? You need to reevaluate, or properly edit your post.

A humble, Christian woman is going to see your post and see that you're placing physical first and spiritual second. Christians are to put spiritual first and put the physical second. You're not going to woo a true Christian woman with that type mindset, and have thus lost her. If your post does not reflect your intentions, I would suggest editing to reflect your true Christian desires.
 
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