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I have recently had unbelievers pose some questions I couldn't answer...
What is the purpose of life?
Why do bad things happen?
There were others I will share after these are addressed. I am a believer, but I have struggled with questions myself and want to articulate answers clearly
 

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Hello @speciala, God gave us "free will", and there is definitely a downside to having free will, because bad things can and do happen (most often due to the bad/sinful choices that people make, choices that God allows us to make, at least most of the time, or our wills would not be free).

However, the wonderful/wondrous thing about all of the "bad" things in life is this, as Christians, God promised us that He would cause ~ALL~ things to work together for our good, both what we perceive as good, as well what we perceive as bad .. Romans 8:28. As theologian/pastor Charles Spurgeon once said (with regard to what Romans 8:28 teaches us),

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As for the purpose of life, I think the Westminster Shorter Catechism, Q & A #1, says it best (or at least, most concisely).

Q. What is the chief end of man?
A. Man's chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy Him forever.

It is important to note that literally everyone will glorify God, but Christians are the only ones who will be able to enjoy Him as well.

God bless you!

--David
p.s. - here's another quote that might be worth considering concerning this life and 'Christian' suffering, from missionary/author Elisabeth Elliot.

Our vision is so limited we can hardly imagine a love that does not show itself in protection from suffering.... The love of God did not protect His own Son.... He will not necessarily protect us - not from anything it takes to make us like His Son. A lot of hammering and chiseling and purifying by fire will have to go into the process. ~Elisabeth Elliot
 
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I have recently had unbelievers pose some questions I couldn't answer...
What is the purpose of life?
Why do bad things happen?
There were others I will share after these are addressed. I am a believer, but I have struggled with questions myself and want to articulate answers clearly
What is the purpose of man, according to the Bible? | GotQuestions.org
Question: "What is the purpose of man, according to the Bible?"

Answer:
The Bible makes it abundantly clear that God created man and that He created him for His glory. Therefore, the ultimate purpose of man, according to the Bible, is simply to glorify God.

A harder question to answer, perhaps, is what does it look like to glorify God? In Psalm 100:2–3, we’re told to worship God with gladness and “know that the Lord is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.” Part of what it looks like to glorify God is to acknowledge who God is (our Creator, for starters) and to praise and worship Him as such.

We fulfill our purpose of glorifying God also by living our lives in relationship and faithful service to Him (1 Samuel 12:24; John 17:4). Since God created man in His image (Genesis 1:26–27), man’s purpose cannot be fulfilled apart from Him. King Solomon tried living for his own pleasure, yet at the end of his life he concluded that the only worthwhile life is one of honor and obedience to God (Ecclesiastes 12:13–14).

In our fallen state, sin separates us from God and makes it impossible to glorify Him on our own. But through Jesus Christ’s sacrifice, our relationship with God is reconciled—our sin is forgiven and no longer creates a barrier between God and us (Romans 3:23–24).

Interestingly, we are able to glorify God because He gave us glory first. David writes in Psalm 8:4–6, “What is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them? You have made them a little lower than the angels and crowned them with glory and honor. You made them rulers over the works of your hands; you put everything under their feet.” (This is also repeated in Hebrews 2:6–8.) This verse reveals another purpose that God has given man: dominion over the earth (Genesis 1:28–29). Again, though, this can only be properly fulfilled through a right relationship with God.

The more we get to know our Creator and the more we love Him (Matthew 22:37–38), the better we understand who we are and what our purpose is. We were created to bring Him glory. God has unique plans and purposes for each person (Psalm 139:13–16), but we can know that, whatever those plans look like, they will ultimately result in His glory (Proverbs 3:6; 1 Corinthians 10:31).
 
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I have recently had unbelievers pose some questions I couldn't answer...
What is the purpose of life?
Why do bad things happen?
There were others I will share after these are addressed. I am a believer, but I have struggled with questions myself and want to articulate answers clearly
Why does God allow the innocent to suffer? | GotQuestions.org
Question: "Why does God allow the innocent to suffer?"

Answer:
There is so much suffering in the world, and it is felt by everyone to one degree or another. Sometimes, people suffer as the direct result of their own poor choices, sinful actions, or willful irresponsibility; in those cases, we see the truth of Proverbs 13:15, “The way of the treacherous is their ruin” (ESV). But what about the victims of the treachery? What about the innocent who suffer? Why would God allow that?

It is human nature to try to find a correlation between bad behavior and bad circumstances and, conversely, between good behavior and blessings. The desire to link sin to suffering is so strong that Jesus dealt with the issue at least twice. “As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, ‘Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?’ ‘Neither this man nor his parents sinned,’ said Jesus” (John 9:1–3). The disciples made the mistake of assuming that the innocent would never suffer and assigned personal guilt to the blind man (or to his parents). Jesus corrected their thinking, saying, “This happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him” (verse 3). The man’s blindness was not the result of personal sin; rather, God had a higher purpose for the suffering.

Another time, Jesus commented on the deaths of some people killed in an accident: “Those eighteen who died when the tower in Siloam fell on them—do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem? I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish” (Luke 13:4–5). In this case, Jesus again discounted the notion that tragedy and suffering are the result of personal sin. At the same time, Jesus emphasized the fact that we live in a world full of sin and its effects; therefore, everyone must repent.

This brings us to the consideration of whether such a thing as “the innocent,” technically speaking, even exists. According to the Bible, “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Therefore, no one is “innocent” in the sense of being sinless. We were all born with a sinful nature, inherited from Adam. And, as we’ve already seen, everyone suffers, regardless of whether or not the suffering can be linked to a specific personal sin. Sin’s effects permeate everything; the world is fallen, and all creation suffers as a result (Romans 8:22).

Most heartbreaking of all is the suffering of a child. Children are as close to innocence as we ever see in this world, and for them to suffer is truly tragic. Sometimes, innocent children suffer because of the sin of others: neglect, abuse, drunk driving, etc. In those cases, we can definitely say that the suffering is the result of personal sin (just not theirs), and we learn the lesson that our sin always affects others around us. Other times, innocent children suffer because of what some might call “acts of God”: natural disasters, accidents, childhood cancer, etc. Even in those cases, we can say that the suffering is the result of sin, generally speaking, because we live in a sinful world.

The good news is that God did not leave us here to suffer pointlessly. Yes, the innocent suffer (see Job 1–2), but God can redeem that suffering. Our loving and merciful God has a perfect plan to use that suffering to accomplish His threefold purpose. First, He uses pain and suffering to draw us to Himself so that we will cling to Him. Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33). Trials and distress are not something unusual in life; they are part of what it means to be human in a fallen world. In Christ we have an anchor that holds fast in all the storms of life, but, if we never sail into those storms, how would we know that? It is in times of despair and sorrow that we reach out to Him, and, if we are His children, we always find Him there waiting to comfort and uphold us through it all. In this way, God proves His faithfulness to us and ensures that we will stay close to Him. An added benefit is that as we experience God’s comfort through trials, we are then able to comfort others in the same way (2 Corinthians 1:4).

Second, He proves to us that our faith is real through the suffering and pain that are inevitable in this life. How we respond to suffering, especially when we are innocent of wrongdoing, is determined by the genuineness of our faith. Those with faith in Jesus, “the pioneer and perfecter of faith” (Hebrews 12:2), will not be crushed by suffering but will come through the trial with their faith intact, having been “tested by fire” so that it “may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 1:7, ESV). The faithful do not shake their fists at God or question His goodness; rather, they “consider it pure joy” (James 1:2), knowing that trials prove that they are truly the children of God. “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him” (James 1:12).

Finally, God uses suffering to take our eyes off this world and turn them to the next. The Bible continually exhorts us to not get caught up in the things of this world but to look forward to the world to come. The innocent suffer in this world, but this world and all that is in it will pass away; the kingdom of God is eternal. Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world” (John 18:36), and those who follow Him do not see the things of this life, good or bad, as the end of the story. Even the sufferings we endure, as terrible as they can be, “are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us” (Romans 8:18).

Could God prevent all suffering? Of course He could. But He assures us that “all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28, KJV). Suffering—even the suffering of the innocent—is part of the “all things” that God is using to accomplish His good purposes, ultimately. His plan is perfect, His character is flawless, and those who trust Him will not be disappointed.
 
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I have recently had unbelievers pose some questions I couldn't answer...
What is the purpose of life?
Why do bad things happen?
There were others I will share after these are addressed. I am a believer, but I have struggled with questions myself and want to articulate answers clearly

What is the purpose of life?

Our whole purpose is to learn to love (Love God with all our hearts mind and soul, love our neighbors as ourself).

Why do bad things happen?

Because of free will... we get to choose to do good or bad. The consequences, not so much. And now due to compounded bad choices more and more bad consequences happen, even to good people.

How could a loving God send people to hell? (freebie, it's a common question).

Hell was created for demons. Unfortunately we end up with who we choose to serve. Serve God, end up in heaven with God. Serve evil, end up with the god of evil in hell. Remember we have free will to choose, the consequences not so much.

So...I'm not a bad person, I'm sure I'll end in heaven (this one is related to the freebie)

Jesus said "If you're not for me, you're against me". This a cosmic war, there are no fence sitters here. By default we aligned ourself with the wrong side. Seek God while He can be found, or face the consequence.
 
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I have recently had unbelievers pose some questions I couldn't answer...
What is the purpose of life?
Why do bad things happen?
There were others I will share after these are addressed. I am a believer, but I have struggled with questions myself and want to articulate answers clearly

Hi Speciala,

Welcome to CF.

You might want to post these questions in the
General Theology forum. I suppose that such a thread would do well there.
 
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