So.. what's the word, friends? Here's my situation: I am a committed Christian, praying for God's will in my life. I found a wonderful Christian man who stirred my heart. We were moving towards marraige, when he felt God tell him to call it off with me. Maybe love is blind, but I really thought that God put him in my life. (Leaning on Romans 8:28- God works all things to the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose). The question remains- since the heart is deceitful, how can you know when its ok to be vulnerable with a person of the opposite sex? Do you really get that "He's the One" feeling? I know fear is not from God, but I feel the walls going up around my heart. But I also know that to "awaken love" too early is to court disaster. Any advice?