Your verses do not disprove predestination, they only give some implication regarding God`s criteria for the elect.
Again you miss the facts.
Paul was talking about Israel throughout Romans 9.
He opens talking about Israel, which is the topic, and he continues talking about Israel throughout chapter 9 - the chapter ends with Israel.
Israel is who is on the potters wheel, per Jeremiah 18.
Edom and Israel came from Esau and Jacob.
Rebecca was told two nations are in her womb, Genesis 25.
Two nations came out of her womb, and scripture says Edom served Israel - so when Romans 9 says of Esau and Jacob, that the elder will serve the younger, guess what He’s referring to?
Edom and Israel.
Pharoah and Moses are connected to who?
The Israelites. Who became what nation?
Israel.
Do you detect a trend yet as to what the subject of Romans 9 is?
Count how many times the word Israel is found, then count the direct references to Israel that don’t use the word Israel.
And if you want evidence that Calvinist twisting of the terms elect and predestination, you need only to read the following facts:
Reformed dogma claims God unconditionally elects to salvation , and no free will is involved, and that the Holy Spirit (no one can say Jesus is Lord, except the Spirit draws them) is irresistible.
This is easily seen to be false.
Jesus came only for Israel. Matthew 15:24.
They were God’s elect. Isaiah 45:4
Yet His own, that He came for, REJECTED Him. John 1:11
Jesus, who is God, yearned for His own elect people whom He came for, to come to Him - but they refused:
Mat 23:37 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and YE WOULD NOT!
This is because God gave us free will, and the Holy Spirit is resistible - there is no such thing as irresistible grace.
Stephen preached to the same elect Israelites (Isaiah 45:4) who Jesus came for (John 1:11) who He yearned would come to Him (Matthew 23:37) and told them WHY they killed the prophets God sent, and rejected and killed their own Messiah sent to them: because they RESIST the Holy Spirit.
Act 7:51 Ye stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always RESIST THE HOLY GHOST : as your fathers did, so do ye.
Act 7:52 Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who announced beforehand the coming of the Righteous One, whom you have now betrayed and murdered (Jesus)
The Holy Spirit, without which no man can say Jesus is Lord, is resistible, because of free will.
Faith comes by hearing Gods word Romans 10:17, not by first being regenerated, and grace is resistible because the Holy Spirit is resistible.
Salvation is not guaranteed from having faith, man has freewill to receive Jesus John. 1:12, or resist the drawing by the HS and reject Jesus, as the elect Israelis did, when Jesus came for His OWN John 1:11.
There is NO irresistible grace or unconditional Election.
Israel, Gods elect, resisted the Holy Spirit and rejected Jesus, their savior.
As Jesus said to them:
Joh 5:39 Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me.
Joh 5:40 And ye WILL NOT come to me, that ye might have life.
Yes, except for Romans 9, where Paul applies the principle to the whole world and breaks it down to two kinds of people.