What does America even represent at this point

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....We are disadvantaged in the fact that we can't have our own culture, and people with another homeland will generally take sides with that country over America. I feel like I don't have an identity. Does anyone else feel like this?...
American identity is more ideological than cultural. Its about various freedoms. Thats why its always been perfectly fine to call yourself Italian-American. Or African-American. These cultural identities can exist just fine within our ideological-national identity.

There are some very worthy aspects of American culture tho. Jazz and RocknRoll for example.
 
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I consider my self American, but not first, and I don't essentially rely on this... Not ultimately.

Why?

First -- I'm Christian. This is what I rely on.

John 15:19 If you were of the world, it would love you as its own. Instead, the world hates you, because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.

Great scriptural reference. I agree with you. I'm not trying to say that America is my spiritual base, but more on the national/international/political platform. Either way good for people to remember Christ first :pray:
 
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From wars started by false flags and motivated by greed and the military-industrial complex, etc., I don't really have much love for the USA governmentally speaking. Coming from the south & midwest, I feel like we are used and talked about like trash by people on the coasts. My college puts international students and rich kids above middle class Americans.

If you come to the US from another country, let's say Mexico, you can say you're Mexican-American. If I move to Mexico, the people won't consider me Mexican, I'd just be American. The same if I went to Japan, Germany, and so on. Basically, anyone with another home country has the option to pick whatever side they want when hard times come. The US is an empire, and Americans who have lived here for generations don't have a true nation. We are disadvantaged in the fact that we can't have our own culture, and people with another homeland will generally take sides with that country over America. I feel like I don't have an identity. Does anyone else feel like this?

By no means am I a 'white nationalist'. I'm not fighting or advocating for a skin color. I just hope thats understood. I'm honestly considering just leaving the US at some point. I'm a reasonable person so I mean no disrespect, I am just trying to figure out exactly what I am fighting for. Thanks.
The interesting thing a about the US... it remains the one place everyone else wants to come to.
 
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The interesting thing a about the US... it remains the one place everyone else wants to come to.

It used to be, and it still represents an attractive proposition for a lot of people, particularly from the second and third world. For Europeans however, the glamour has faded a lot in recent decades. When I was a kid most teenagers would have loved to move to America. Now it’s a lot, lot less. Bush and now Trump along with the wide spread of information via the internet has shown people a lot of the dark side, especially after the wars in Iraq.
 
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Shame that what people usually mean by that is all the preferential treatment Christians have gotten compared to other religions.
 
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Shame that what people usually mean by that is all the preferential treatment Christians have gotten compared to other religions.
Makes it hard for true religious liberty to thrive. Here in America, we're paying dearly for our hypocrisy and it's only going to get worse.
 
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It used to be, and it still represents an attractive proposition for a lot of people, particularly from the second and third world. For Europeans however, the glamour has faded a lot in recent decades. When I was a kid most teenagers would have loved to move to America. Now it’s a lot, lot less. Bush and now Trump along with the wide spread of information via the internet has shown people a lot of the dark side, especially after the wars in Iraq.

Interesting thoughts. I've considered moving to or at least frequenting France (French/cajun blood). Do you think it would be wise to go there? I was also thinking French Canada. I've generally heard that the state of affairs in France isn't too promising. God bless
 
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I try my best to think of America like one big parish of 300+ million people. Like I would in any parish, I consider everyone there my neighbor and my brother/sister, unless or until they decide that they are not. Sure, some people's actions or beliefs may mean that we cannot truly be 'in communion' (in other words, at some basic level we are not as close as we would need to be to be in true union as brothers), but at any rate we both showed up, and who can deny the benefits of attending a liturgy even when you cannot commune? If my Church was holding public liturgies right now (which, thankfully, they are not), you bet I would go even if communion was not an option. I don't think this matches what America represents (I can't say I spend a lot of time thinking about this), but it's what I would like it to represent.

An imperfect analogy to be sure, and definitely pie-in-the-sky thinking, but I like it better than the standard secular 'American dream' idea, which is also pie-in-the-sky thinking. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
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Coming from the south & midwest, I feel like we are used and talked about like trash by people on the coasts.

IME, that's imagined as much as anything. I'm not going to say that it doesn't exist, but it's mostly propaganda used by people in non-urban areas to build their own followings and consolidate their own power. In reality, it doesn't comport with the way people on the coasts actually think - beyond being frustrated at some of your political ideas, most of us just don't really care that much one way or another. But the real fallacy baked into that message is that we on the coasts don't know anybody from these non-urban, non-coastal areas and that your culture is entirely foreign to us. It just isn't true. Yeah, some of us grew up in big cities, but a lot of us are transplants who moved here for work. For example, just in my church community group (in Baltimore City), there's me and another guy who both grew up in the rust belt region of central/western NY, a post-doc from a farm in eastern Washington, a grad student and his wife from middle-of-nowhere Kentucky, an undergrad from a huge farm in Oklahoma, a grad student and her husband from Montana, and a social worker from South Carolina. At my last church in the middle of Cambridge, MA, there were so many people from Oklahoma it became sort of a running joke.

My college puts international students and rich kids above middle class Americans.

That's got nothing to do with culture and everything to do with money. Those groups both pay the full sticker price and don't dip into the school's financial aid pool.

If you come to the US from another country, let's say Mexico, you can say you're Mexican-American. If I move to Mexico, the people won't consider me Mexican, I'd just be American. The same if I went to Japan, Germany, and so on. Basically, anyone with another home country has the option to pick whatever side they want when hard times come. The US is an empire, and Americans who have lived here for generations don't have a true nation. We are disadvantaged in the fact that we can't have our own culture, and people with another homeland will generally take sides with that country over America. I feel like I don't have an identity. Does anyone else feel like this?

By no means am I a 'white nationalist'. I'm not fighting or advocating for a skin color. I just hope thats understood. I'm honestly considering just leaving the US at some point. I'm a reasonable person so I mean no disrespect, I am just trying to figure out exactly what I am fighting for. Thanks.

No, I don't personally feel like that - mainly because identities of that sort don't really appeal to me - but I also don't discount what you're saying. Part of the issue is that the celebration of "American" culture carries with it a lot of baggage - throughout history, that celebration and that identity has very often been defined by who it excludes rather than just who it includes, so today, even the most well-meaning, non-racist person is going to draw some raised eyebrows when they start heading down that path. Part of it is also the fact that America is pretty new. Most other cultures have had millenia to develop - often in relative isolation (which is where things really become unique); we've had a couple centuries, none of it in isolation. Arguably, a lot of the most uniquely-American elements of our culture have come from the black community: barbecue, jazz, blues, rap.

That said, for someone feeling as you do, there are some encouraging things coming from, all of places, the restaurant industry. My wife and I are kinda-foodies and there's been a big movement in the last few decades to respect and celebrate the unique cultures and ingredients of the different regions within the US. (so much so that if you're a viewer of chef-oriented cooking shows, as we are, it's gotten a bit heavy-handed) A lot of that unique regional flavor (no pun intended) had been sort of washed out in the 20th century partly because so many people treated the fancy European standard as an ideal and partly because it was cheaper for large chains to homogenize everything. But it's now following a somewhat-similar path to music wherein the appreciation of it as an artform has expanded to treat just about every source of influence as worthwhile.
 
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From wars started by false flags and motivated by greed and the military-industrial complex, etc., I don't really have much love for the USA governmentally speaking. Coming from the south & midwest, I feel like we are used and talked about like trash by people on the coasts. My college puts international students and rich kids above middle class Americans.

If you come to the US from another country, let's say Mexico, you can say you're Mexican-American. If I move to Mexico, the people won't consider me Mexican, I'd just be American. The same if I went to Japan, Germany, and so on. Basically, anyone with another home country has the option to pick whatever side they want when hard times come. The US is an empire, and Americans who have lived here for generations don't have a true nation. We are disadvantaged in the fact that we can't have our own culture, and people with another homeland will generally take sides with that country over America. I feel like I don't have an identity. Does anyone else feel like this?

By no means am I a 'white nationalist'. I'm not fighting or advocating for a skin color. I just hope thats understood. I'm honestly considering just leaving the US at some point. I'm a reasonable person so I mean no disrespect, I am just trying to figure out exactly what I am fighting for. Thanks.

That thing about having people considered Americans when they arrive, is actually one of your strengths, although I doubt it’s as true as you think. Do Mexican immigrants really find all Americans adopting them as American from the day they get their citizenship?

Also in other counties it varies wildly. Some countries welcome people as ‘almost’ their own when they immigrate (I think every first generation immigrant will always be considered somewhat different by natives) and other countries will never accept people no matter what. If you move to the U.K. you’ll always be American to people thanks to the accent (if you lose that they’ll quickly forget) but overall it’ll make no difference, whereas if you move to Japan you’ll never be accepted no matter how long you’re there, and neither would your kids even if they were born there. It’s just degrees of acceptance really.
 
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IME, that's imagined as much as anything. I'm not going to say that it doesn't exist, but it's mostly propaganda used by people in non-urban areas to build their own followings and consolidate their own power. In reality, it doesn't comport with the way people on the coasts actually think - beyond being frustrated at some of your political ideas, most of us just don't really care one way or another. But the real fallacy baked into that message is that we on the coasts don't know anybody from these non-urban, non-coastal areas and that your culture is entirely foreign to us. It just isn't true. Yeah, some of us grew up in big cities, but a lot of us are transplants who moved here for work. For example, just in my church community group (in Baltimore City), there's me and another guy who both grew up in the rust belt region of central/western NY, a post-doc from a farm in eastern Washington, a grad student and his wife from middle-of-nowhere Kentucky, an undergrad from a huge farm in Oklahoma, a grad student and her husband from Montana, and a social worker from South Carolina. At my last church in the middle of Cambridge, MA, there were so many people from Oklahoma it became sort of a running joke.



That's got nothing to do with culture and everything to do with money. Those groups both pay the full sticker price and don't dip into the school's financial aid pool.



No, I don't personally feel like that - mainly because identities of that sort don't really appeal to me - but I also don't discount what you're saying. Part of the issue is that the celebration of "American" culture carries with it a lot of baggage - throughout history, that celebration and that identity has very often been defined by who it excludes rather than just who it includes, so today, even the most well-meaning, non-racist person is going to draw some raised eyebrows when they start heading down that path. Part of it is also the fact that America is pretty new. Most other cultures have had millenia to develop - often in relative isolation (which is where things really become unique); we've had a couple centuries, none of it in isolation. Arguably, a lot of the most uniquely-American elements of our culture have come from the black community: barbecue, jazz, blues, rap.

That said, for someone feeling as you do, there are some encouraging things coming from, all of places, the restaurant industry. My wife and I are kinda-foodies and there's been a big movement in the last few decades to respect and celebrate the unique cultures and ingredients of the different regions within the US. (so much so that if you're a viewer of chef-oriented cooking shows, as we are, it's gotten a bit heavy-handed) A lot of that unique regional flavor (no pun intended) had been sort of washed out in the 20th century partly because so many people treated the fancy European standard as an ideal and partly because it was cheaper for large chains to homogenize everything. But it's now following a somewhat-similar path to music wherein the appreciation of it as an artform has expanded to treat just about every source of influence as worthwhile.


I understand. I just don't feel like carrying that baggage anymore, all it does is bring negative thoughts. I think I'm just done representing myself by anything other than my faith, my interests (music, health, sports), and my family. I'll just avoid a US stance altogether
 
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Interesting thoughts. I've considered moving to or at least frequenting France (French/cajun blood). Do you think it would be wise to go there? I was also thinking French Canada. I've generally heard that the state of affairs in France isn't too promising. God bless

If you learned French you’d be fine in France, it’s a welcoming country. Lots of Americans already here. You’d have to get used to them insulting Trump though, just so you're warned, although that’s true everywhere in Europe.
 
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If you learned French you’d be fine in France, it’s a welcoming country. Lots of Americans already here. You’d have to get used to them insulting Trump though, just so you're warned, although that’s true everywhere in Europe.

Encouraging to hear. Just started trying to learn French, gonna take a minute to be confident in it of course
 
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I try my best to think of America like one big parish of 300+ million people. Like I would in any parish, I consider everyone there my neighbor and my brother/sister, unless or until they decide that they are not. Sure, some people's actions or beliefs may mean that we cannot truly be 'in communion' (in other words, at some basic level we are not as close as we would need to be to be in true union as brothers), but at any rate we both showed up, and who can deny the benefits of attending a liturgy even when you cannot commune? If my Church was holding public liturgies right now (which, thankfully, they are not), you bet I would go even if communion was not an option. I don't think this matches what America represents (I can't say I spend a lot of time thinking about this), but it's what I would like it to represent.

An imperfect analogy to be sure, and definitely pie-in-the-sky thinking, but I like it better than the standard secular 'American dream' idea, which is also pie-in-the-sky thinking. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I like that viewpoint
 
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I live in Australia and have a strong Glasgow accent. I have been here almost half my life and still get asked if I am on holiday. I have been an Australian citizen after being here 3 years, so I am an Australian but I am also Scottish, but more important I am a world citizen and will criticise Australia, Scotland and the UK for injustices against any country or peoples or religious group. That is the right a citizen has to keep the powers in Line. Nations are artificial boundaries for administrative purposes. All mankind is one people so refuse to join the military like the early Christians pre-Constantine.
 
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I live in Australia and have a strong Glasgow accent. I have been here almost half my life and still get asked if I am on holiday. I have been an Australian citizen after being here 3 years, so I am an Australian but I am also Scottish, but more important I am a world citizen and will criticise Australia, Scotland and the UK for injustices against any country or peoples or religious group. That is the right a citizen has to keep the powers in Line. Nations are artificial boundaries for administrative purposes. All mankind is one people so refuse to join the military like the early Christians pre-Constantine.

Nice. I'm realizing I can't fall for too much pride in my country, and to remember that humanity is God's creation.
 
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