Y'all may like what happened to me.
When I was in my 30s, a bachelor, my 2 closest friends were married and having kids, and they started to ask me didn't I want kids?
One time my friend would ask. Or another time his wife would. Both families.
In the first few years of that I'd say something like "Well, I'm not really especially wanting that."
But eventually, with their kids on my lap and running around, and just myself getting older I finally allowed to them --
"Well, if I had any kids I think I'd just want to have 1. A daughter."
Years pass.
I married late at 44, and my wife the same age as me, and 2 doctors had told her that due to scarring she would not be able to conceive.
So, having a daughter was off the table, and I wasn't too worried about it, though perhaps a part of me was feeling a slight loss. But it wasn't strong in my mind.
But....God had other plans it seems.
Though 2 doctors had said she could not get pregnant, she did, at 44, and we have a wonderful amazing beautiful daughter, and it's really a life-changing blessing. We've been feeling blessed over the years at how great a kid she is too.
It's really something. Because she's been so good for us. She's sorta this ideal, and it seems like we got really lucky. But now I guess I realize it might not be luck at all.
Yes - I know of several couples that follow the teaching. They are rare, but are around.
That. And some of us do follow the teaching. Just to be contrarian of course.
Well I think so, but they seem to be more Catholic in the “open to life” department than basically all Protestants and many Catholics.