Wow, thanks for the below it really helps me understand why we never get anywhere.
Is the reference to Jacob and Esau in Romans 9 about the salvation of two individuals as Calvinists claim, or is it about the election of a nation as revealed by Genesis 25:23?
How did Paul use it in his discourse?
Romans 9: NASB
6But it is not as though the word of God has failed. For they are not all Israel who are descended from Israel; 7nor are they all children because they are Abraham’s descendants, but: “THROUGH ISAAC YOUR DESCENDANTS WILL BE NAMED.” 8That is, it is not the children of the flesh who are children of God, but the children of the promise are regarded as descendants. 9For this is the word of promise: “AT THIS TIME I WILL COME, AND SARAH SHALL HAVE A SON.” 10And not only this, but there was Rebekah also, when she had conceived twins by one man, our father Isaac; 11for though the twins were not yet born and had not done anything good or bad, so that God’s purpose according to His choice would stand, not because of works but because of Him who calls, 12it was said to her, “THE OLDER WILL SERVE THE YOUNGER.” 13Just as it is written, “JACOB I LOVED, BUT ESAU I HATED.”
14What shall we say then? There is no injustice with God, is there? May it never be! 15For He says to Moses, “I WILL HAVE MERCY ON WHOM I HAVE MERCY, AND I WILL HAVE COMPASSION ON WHOM I HAVE COMPASSION.” 16So then it does not depend on the man who wills or the man who runs, but on God who has mercy. 17For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, “FOR THIS VERY PURPOSE I RAISED YOU UP, TO DEMONSTRATE MY POWER IN YOU, AND THAT MY NAME MIGHT BE PROCLAIMED THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE EARTH.” 18So then He has mercy on whom He desires, and He hardens whom He desires.
19You will say to me then, “Why does He still find fault? For who resists His will?” 20On the contrary, who are you, O man, who answers back to God? The thing molded will not say to the molder, “Why did you make me like this,” will it? 21Or does not the potter have a right over the clay, to make from the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for common use? 22What if God, although willing to demonstrate His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction? 23And He did so to make known the riches of His glory upon vessels of mercy, which He prepared beforehand for glory, 24even us, whom He also called, not from among Jews only, but also from among Gentiles.
Why would Peter command men to repent and be converted in Acts 3:19, if it is something God must do for them?
I don't think I made the claim God repents for us. I know I did not. What I showed from Ezekiel and Jeremiah was that God is the one who gives us a new heart, takes the heart of stone and replaces it with a heart of flesh. God surely says He will do this.
Ezekiel 36: NASB
25“Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26“Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27“I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances.
So Peter was preaching the Gospel and the Gospel is the general call to all mankind. Jesus did say "many are called but few are chosen."
Illustrated here:
When the Gentiles heard this, they began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord; and as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed.(Acts 13:48)
You claim men cannot repent, until they are regenerated first by God.
The Ordo Salutis is not a step by step manual for salvation. However we do see in Acts chapter 2 the following:
The people heard the Gospel, those who were pricked in the heart believed the Gospel, they responded to the Gospel (repent and were baptized). I don't know why most miss that most important part of Acts after Peter finished preaching the Gospel:
Acts 2: NASB
37Now when they heard this, they were pierced to the heart, and said to Peter and the rest of the apostles, “Brethren, what shall we do?” 38Peter said to them, “Repent, and each of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
We see a similar illustration in Acts 10 when Peter preaches the Gospel, and while he was speaking the Holy Spirit came upon all who were listening. Then they were baptized.
Once again not getting your point on what you post. Is it your belief that somehow we can change ourselves, or by our fallen human efforts obtain regeneration from God by something we do?
Why would God command all men to repent in Acts 17:30, if God keeps some of them from repenting?
You asked this before. I answered in a twofold manner. (1) are you promoting Universal Reconciliation? (2) the call for all to repent is the general call of the Gospel. Many are called but few are chosen.
Does God give ears that understand and eyes which see to all mankind?
Can God repent for me, even though He has no sin?
Did I say God repents for us? No, I said He is the One who gives us the new heart which leads us to repent. Remember, we are dead in our transgressions and sons of wrath before what? God makes us alive through Jesus Christ. That's from Ephesians chapter 2. So dead then alive. Dead men don't talk or reason.
What is the order of salvation in Ephesians 1:13?
I answered this one twice. You left out the preceding verses. Here is the order:
Ephesians 1: NASB
3Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, 4just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him. In love 5He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, 6to the praise of the glory of His grace, which He freely bestowed on us in the Beloved. 7In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace 8which He lavished on us. In all wisdom and insight 9He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His kind intention which He purposed in Him 10with a view to an administration suitable to the fullness of the times, that is, the summing up of all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth. In Him 11also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, 12to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory. 13In Him, you also, after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, 14who is given as a pledge of our inheritance, with a view to the redemption of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory.
Are people regenerated by the Holy Spirit before they hear, and believe?
Everything starts with the hearing. Yet dead men can't hear a thing. So the answer is it starts with God's divine calling and that calling is the Gospel.