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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship with a 34 year female who is manipulative an controlling. We are not married but have been living together for a year and a half but she is still married to her other man that she hasn't got a divorce from yet. The problem is I'm willing to repent and turn away from my sin but she's making it difficult I've been battling this for a year an a half. The biggest problem is everything has to be done her way or no way and there's no telling her no and she won't talk about breaking up it's just NO to her. What's also making it hard to break off from this is the fact that she lives off social security disability income of $750 a month and food stamps to eat but that's not enough to live on her own. Part of me is saying the only way out is to kindly tell her she has to find a place to go or take a lawsuit and move out and not tell her where im going cause this been going on far to long now. Also just to clarify in case of confusion I'm not saying she is controlling because she is being difficult about a breakup cause no breakup is easy going. But there is other parts of the relationship that are toxic as well. It's a hindrance cause we all know we can't repent if we are living in sin.

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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship with a 34 year female who is manipulative an controlling. We are not married but have been living together for a year and a half but she is still married to her other man that she hasn't got a divorce from yet. The problem is I'm willing to repent and turn away from my sin but she's making it difficult I've been battling this for a year an a half. The biggest problem is everything has to be done her way or no way and there's no telling her no and she won't talk about breaking up it's just NO to her. What's also making it hard to break off from this is the fact that she lives off social security disability income of $750 a month and food stamps to eat but that's not enough to live on her own. Part of me is saying the only way out is to kindly tell her she has to find a place to go or take a lawsuit and move out and not tell her where im going cause this been going on far to long now. Also just to clarify in case of confusion I'm not saying she is controlling because she is being difficult about a breakup cause no breakup is easy going. But there is other parts of the relationship that are toxic as well. It's a hindrance cause we all know we can't repent if we are living in sin.

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Neogaia777 said:

Get out of it ASAP... Do whatever it takes or whatever you have to do to do that... Get out on your own for awhile... What happens to her is not your responsibility... You guys are not married and she has refused to get a divorce from her previous husband... She is not your responsibility... She is using you and abusing you... You have no obligations to her under those circumstances... Get out as soon as you can... Then repent to God about your mistake or own wrongdoing in the matter... Get as far away from and removed from her as you can and never look back or go back, ever...

That would be my advice from experience anyway...

Be praying for you and those like you, and who were like me once before...

God Bless!

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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship

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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship with a 34 year female who is manipulative an controlling. We are not married but have been living together for a year and a half but she is still married to her other man that she hasn't got a divorce from yet. The problem is I'm willing to repent and turn away from my sin but she's making it difficult I've been battling this for a year an a half. The biggest problem is everything has to be done her way or no way and there's no telling her no and she won't talk about breaking up it's just NO to her. What's also making it hard to break off from this is the fact that she lives off social security disability income of $750 a month and food stamps to eat but that's not enough to live on her own. Part of me is saying the only way out is to kindly tell her she has to find a place to go or take a lawsuit and move out and not tell her where im going cause this been going on far to long now. Also just to clarify in case of confusion I'm not saying she is controlling because she is being difficult about a breakup cause no breakup is easy going. But there is other parts of the relationship that are toxic as well. It's a hindrance cause we all know we can't repent if we are living in sin.

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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship with a 34 year female who is manipulative an controlling. We are not married but have been living together for a year and a half but she is still married to her other man that she hasn't got a divorce from yet. The problem is I'm willing to repent and turn away from my sin but she's making it difficult I've been battling this for a year an a half. The biggest problem is everything has to be done her way or no way and there's no telling her no and she won't talk about breaking up it's just NO to her. What's also making it hard to break off from this is the fact that she lives off social security disability income of $750 a month and food stamps to eat but that's not enough to live on her own. Part of me is saying the only way out is to kindly tell her she has to find a place to go or take a lawsuit and move out and not tell her where im going cause this been going on far to long now. Also just to clarify in case of confusion I'm not saying she is controlling because she is being difficult about a breakup cause no breakup is easy going. But there is other parts of the relationship that are toxic as well. It's a hindrance cause we all know we can't repent if we are living in sin.

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Glorytothefather2245 said:

Hey guys I'm a 26 year old male living in an adulterous relationship with a 34 year female who is manipulative an controlling. We are not married but have been living together for a year and a half but she is still married to her other man that she hasn't got a divorce from yet. The problem is I'm willing to repent and turn away from my sin but she's making it difficult I've been battling this for a year an a half. The biggest problem is everything has to be done her way or no way and there's no telling her no and she won't talk about breaking up it's just NO to her. What's also making it hard to break off from this is the fact that she lives off social security disability income of $750 a month and food stamps to eat but that's not enough to live on her own. Part of me is saying the only way out is to kindly tell her she has to find a place to go or take a lawsuit and move out and not tell her where im going cause this been going on far to long now. Also just to clarify in case of confusion I'm not saying she is controlling because she is being difficult about a breakup cause no breakup is easy going. But there is other parts of the relationship that are toxic as well. It's a hindrance cause we all know we can't repent if we are living in sin.

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