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I have had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. Not quite, but almost. He is my best friend. We do just about everything together.
I am seventeen, and he just turned eighteen. He is immature, but he is a God-fearing Christian. Both of us have been Christian for about a year now... so I suppose we are both still figuring things out. That is why I am so thankful for this forum.
Anyways. I think I am being called to break up with him. BUT I have no clue if this is just me being stupid or if it actually God calling me. I cannot go to the Bible for answers. I would understand if my boyfriend was causing us to stumble, was not Christian, etc., but he is Christian! And every time we have "stumbled" we both repent together and move on and try to not to it again. So that is not the issue.
It is just a sheer feeling. That is all. Before I felt that way, I was happy with him. I mean, we both thought we were the ones for each other. We are both Christian, we talk about God, pray together, go to church together, and I know he cares for me, and he respects the physical boundaries we need to have. But I am growing unhappy because I am afraid that I am not in God's will (or what is making God happy). I am so afraid, and so attached to my boyfriend because he is my best friend.
I do not know what is happening or what to do. I am so lost and scared, and I am afraid God will turn his back on me if I do not hurry up and realize what he is saying. Everything feels so fuzzy. I already feel heartbroken inside and nothing has even happened. Please help.
See I do not know. I don't know. All I know is I feel as if God is telling me to end things. That is it. I am so confused because I have nothing to go by.When you have this feeling, are you identify what the feeling is? I mean, what does this feeling tell you is wrong with keeping this guy as your boyfriend if you're not doing anything wrong?
See I do not know. I don't know. All I know is I feel as if God is telling me to end things. That is it. I am so confused because I have nothing to go by.
Always keep this in mind: as his girlfriend and best friend, you currently have a special influence on his Spirit, and how you act on this call will impact his own journey. However you go forward, keep his best interests as a high priority and never forget self-forgetfulness. God bless.I have had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. Not quite, but almost. He is my best friend. We do just about everything together.
I am seventeen, and he just turned eighteen. He is immature, but he is a God-fearing Christian. Both of us have been Christian for about a year now... so I suppose we are both still figuring things out. That is why I am so thankful for this forum.
Anyways. I think I am being called to break up with him. BUT I have no clue if this is just me being stupid or if it actually God calling me. I cannot go to the Bible for answers. I would understand if my boyfriend was causing us to stumble, was not Christian, etc., but he is Christian! And every time we have "stumbled" we both repent together and move on and try to not to it again. So that is not the issue.
It is just a sheer feeling. That is all. Before I felt that way, I was happy with him. I mean, we both thought we were the ones for each other. We are both Christian, we talk about God, pray together, go to church together, and I know he cares for me, and he respects the physical boundaries we need to have. But I am growing unhappy because I am afraid that I am not in God's will (or what is making God happy). I am so afraid, and so attached to my boyfriend because he is my best friend.
I do not know what is happening or what to do. I am so lost and scared, and I am afraid God will turn his back on me if I do not hurry up and realize what he is saying. Everything feels so fuzzy. I already feel heartbroken inside and nothing has even happened. Please help.
I can’t say. I am very attached to my boyfriend. He’s really my one and only TRUE friend. I’d have a very, very hard time letting him go if I had to. I don’t know if God is trying to tell me to back off and stop relying on my boyfriend too much and rather rely on God. But I don’t know if that goes as far as breaking up.It takes more than a feeling to determine the will of God. Why would he tell you to break up?
I can’t say. I am very attached to my boyfriend. He’s really my one and only TRUE friend. I’d have a very, very hard time letting him go if I had to. I don’t know if God is trying to tell me to back off and stop relying on my boyfriend too much and rather rely on God. But I don’t know if that goes as far as breaking up.
I have had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. Not quite, but almost. He is my best friend. We do just about everything together.
I am seventeen, and he just turned eighteen. He is immature, but he is a God-fearing Christian. Both of us have been Christian for about a year now... so I suppose we are both still figuring things out. That is why I am so thankful for this forum.
Anyways. I think I am being called to break up with him. BUT I have no clue if this is just me being stupid or if it actually God calling me. I cannot go to the Bible for answers. I would understand if my boyfriend was causing us to stumble, was not Christian, etc., but he is Christian! And every time we have "stumbled" we both repent together and move on and try to not to it again. So that is not the issue.
It is just a sheer feeling. That is all. Before I felt that way, I was happy with him. I mean, we both thought we were the ones for each other. We are both Christian, we talk about God, pray together, go to church together, and I know he cares for me, and he respects the physical boundaries we need to have. But I am growing unhappy because I am afraid that I am not in God's will (or what is making God happy). I am so afraid, and so attached to my boyfriend because he is my best friend.
I do not know what is happening or what to do. I am so lost and scared, and I am afraid God will turn his back on me if I do not hurry up and realize what he is saying. Everything feels so fuzzy. I already feel heartbroken inside and nothing has even happened. Please help.
First, I would advise that you just take a moment to breathe and slow down. You seem very eager to make a decision, and yet I think it might be unwise to make a quick decision like that.
I agree with Lost4words. You should maybe take a little break to pray more about this and seek more clarity before making a decision. God won't abandon you for taking your time, I can assure you of that. But yeah, just keep praying about it and maybe talk to a pastor or someone like that if you feel called to do so.
I had the exact same thought.maybe Satan is trying to break up a good Christian partnership