- Oct 21, 2018
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- Single
I'm having a really hard time forgiving someone I thought was a friend. He hurt me greatly and refuses to take responsibility for his actions. My first instinct is to totally go off on him and make him see the error of his ways, but I know to act out like that in anger is wrong.
However, there is a serious problem with the way that this person treats others and I feel like I need to express to him that what he did to me was wrong. How do I do that in a loving way, putting my emotions aside so that I'm not getting back at him for what he did but instead instructing him so he can understand what to do better?
And after that, if he still refuses to acknowledge his part in what happened, how do I forgive him? I struggle with forgiving people who aren't sorry, even though I know I need to.
Thanks
However, there is a serious problem with the way that this person treats others and I feel like I need to express to him that what he did to me was wrong. How do I do that in a loving way, putting my emotions aside so that I'm not getting back at him for what he did but instead instructing him so he can understand what to do better?
And after that, if he still refuses to acknowledge his part in what happened, how do I forgive him? I struggle with forgiving people who aren't sorry, even though I know I need to.
Thanks