Or (3) the apparent sexism in the text isn't actually sexism, because God approves of it.
That's pretty much a restatement of my option 2.
So if there's sexism in the text, either God put it there (God is sexist), or the human authors put it there (Paul is - subconsciously at least - sexist), or it's in the mind of the readers. Since I can see the sexism in the text, and I don't believe God is sexist, and I have some trust in the clarity of my own analysis (I have to, otherwise the whole exercise becomes pointless), I'm driven logically to the conclusion that the sexism in the text is an artefact from the human authors.
But while I believe Scripture to be inspired, and to contain all things necessary to salvation, I don't believe Scripture to be unaffected by the worldviews, biases, weaknesses and so on of the authors. These are not mutually exclusive things. So I can read the letter which says that women are saved "through" childbearing, roll my eyes at a worldview which defines women in terms of our fertility, and still believe that God is interested in women's salvation and welfare (without believing therefore that God requires us to be baby factories).
The big problem here is that your weltanschauung stands above both Scripture and Tradition and is used to evaluate both Scripture and Tradition. Where did that weltanschauung come from? What gives it such authority?
Not exactly true. My hermeneutical lens is one of human flourishing. Christ came that we may have life, and have it in abundance. Whatever detracts from the fullness of human life is, therefore, not from God; and that includes any interpretations and applications of Scripture which are used to demean, oppress, suppress, and so forth.
My commitment to women's equality grows out of my commitment to the gospel.
And for people who take a high view of Scriptural inspiration, and who consequently don't ordain women, there's a huge obligation to make sure that their approach is not "damaging to women."
Within Conservatism Protestantism, this is a big debate (and a few small groups could certainly do better regarding women than they do). But that's for them to sort out.
I've been around enough of those groups that I don't believe any of them have an approach that is not damaging to women. Some more so, and some less, but it's there in every single one I've encountered; because denying our vocations
is intrinsically damaging.
And it's not just for them to sort out. My sisters who are still waiting look to those of us who are ordained to be beacons of hope. To be witnesses to the truth of God's attitude to women. I have a very strong sense of duty to stand up for them. For all our daughters. For the church of the future. To build something that is just even one step closer to the fullness of the reign of God, for all of us.
You will, of course, be aware of the long-standing discussion among conservative Anglicans in Sydney. I understand that their view is that women can be Archdeacons, but not priests. Their particular approach does seem to produce a growing number of female church workers.
Sydney Anglicans are weird in a number of ways. They won't ordain anyone who isn't a priest in charge to the priesthood. So where, in every other diocese, you might have a large parish with a number of priests, in Sydney it'll be one priest and a bunch of deacons. Which then leads to other irregularities like deacons presiding at the Eucharist, but I digress...
Of course their approach is "producing" female church workers. When we're denied our vocations we'll take what opportunities we're given. It's why Rome has so many nuns, for example.
But it doesn't make it right.