I've been married 1 month. Everything was perfect until this last week when my husband showed up from work extremely angry that his the guy who took over his job while we were on our honeymoon got paid double his. He started to express how he could ruin the company until I reminded him that we needed to act and set a presidence in our new family to abide by how god expects us to act. The next day he came home from work and greeted me with a "you messed up!, you didnt put the dog away before work and he pooped in the house" he then proceeded to show me where the dog went and told me I had to clean it up to learn to put the dog away. I let him know it appeared as though he was in a bad mood and that I did not want to fight...the next day he again came in angry about clean clothes and I responded the same way, this was when he went upstairs and was talking to my dad when I started hearing yelling I ran up stairs to find him hovering over my dad telling he was going to kick his bu**. I asked what was going on, he then started staying I was going to take my dads side, threw his ring at me and left. Days later, I went to talk to him (he still hasn't come home) and he is still angry. He told me that I had to choose between him and my father and that for all he cared i could just be married to my dad. I let him know I was not taking sides and I couldn't as I didn't know both sides. He let me know that in marriage I am suppose to stand beside him weather he is right or wrong and that the logistics don't matter. He then proceeded to yell, when I asked him to calm down and stop saying hurtful things to me he blew up.. I walked away and asked him to call our pastor. I'm just so confused on what I need to do. Do I actually have to choose between him and my dad?