She was a vile person whose family couldn't stand her. Her views resonated with only the utmost fringe element of the Christian right. It's like saying we should be respectful in death of Fred Phelps. It has nothing to do with her being a conservative and everything to do with what she stood for, what she fought against, and the tremendous harmful influence she had on gender politics. When I was beaten and raped repeatedly by my ex-husband, I was told by a so-called godly woman that marital rape was a myth, because women give blanket consent to their bodies to their husband on their wedding day. That is a viewpoint Schlafly pushed. I was told abuse was not biblical grounds for divorce, and most men are abusive as a reaction to the moral failures of their wives. Another viewpoint espoused by Schlafly. Schlafly believed fathers should not be obligated to pay child support. That women should be financially secure through their husbands, not on their own merit and hard word. Despite the fact that she obtained multiple college degrees, traveled the world, and enjoyed all of the freedoms from financial burden and family homelife that she so widely touted as the ideal model.
No, she was a foul person. A hypocrite whose lifelong mission sought to hurt and destroy families who were not white, upper crust, Protestant Christian, and fit within a very specific family dynamic.