I find it strange that you fail to mention that the bible mentions deaconesses.
1 Tim: No, like a Bishop. There is no such word in the NT as "pastor".
The word comes from a Greek word,
diakonos (διάκονος), for "
deacon", which means a servant or helper. In early church days there were no nurses, no hospitals. People took care of their sick and elderly at home. (Who do you think cared for such people? Women.) This is the majority of the work that deacons and deaconesses do. Help and visit the sick, care for the needy. At least that is what I have encountered in my experience in various Protestant churches.) It's also critical at times to send women appointed by the church to certain homes, or in certain situations. Most churches practice this, whether women hold an official title or not.) There are many factual instances of non-clerical and clerical deaconesses in early church history. Paul speaks of deaconess-helpers below:
Luke 2:36-38 - And there was a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was advanced in years, having lived with her husband seven years from when she was a virgin, and then as a widow until she was eighty-four. She did not depart from the temple, worshiping with fasting and prayer night and day. And coming up at that very hour she began to give thanks to God and to speak of him to all who were waiting for the redemption of Jerusalem.
Not a deaconess but a prophetess. Was the crowd comprised of all women this widow expounded the message to?
Acts 18:26 - And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto [them], and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.
A woman teaching a man who became an evangelist for the Gospel.
Romans 16:1-3 - I commend unto you Phoebe our sister, which is
a servant of the church which is at Cenchrea: That ye
receive her in the Lord, as becometh saints, and that
ye assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you: for she hath been a succourer of many, and of myself also. Greet
Priscilla and Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus
Paul commends Phoebe as a servant. Servant translates
diakonos, the term from which we get
deacon. The original Greek says: οὖσαν διάκονον,
ousan diakonon, being [the] [
female] deacon of the church at Cenchreae. Does it say this title is official clergy? No, but it doesn't say it wasn't either.
Philippians 4:3 - Yes, I ask you also, true companion,
help these women, who have labored side by side with me in the gospel together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life.