Absolutely correct.
1 John 2:19 "They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us; but they went out that they might be made manifest, that none of them were of us."
This really isn't the appropriate place to debate "Catholic vs Protestant" but it's important to understand that there is more than one version of understood Church history, including a commonly held understanding that the RCC is not the church Jesus formed but something that very quickly grew out of that ancient church; and by that time there were already other churches. It's difficult to reconcile any sort of concept that 1 John 2:19 was talking about ANY denomination, much less the RCC. ESPECIALLY when talking about marriage, which didn't become a part of the church for a few hundred years after that was written. Even in Judaism, Priests were rarely present at weddings, it was entirely civil and social including in early Christianity. Even up through the middle ages in some cases, churches were not performing weddings and Clergy were not involved in them. They certainly happened and often the church would bless them after-the-fact, but they were not the 'place' that weddings happened. (Fun fact: In the early days of specifically Christian weddings, they often happened during the normal worship time and not at any sort of seperate 'wedding'. They were done much the same way as joining the church, baptism, and other rites in those early days; all a function of the regular worship service.)
I didn't see that. I think Mark gave his personal opinion on marriage, but the decision on the marriage and homosexuality rules came from higher up the ladder than either of us. It was an owner/advisor level decision.
I mean, this forum is going to allow discussion and promotion of homosexuality and SSM, if the current votes hold until the poll closes. But are you really surprised Catholics and LCMS Lutherans disagree?
Of course not. The issue at hand (that you are graciously taking the chaff for, and we recognize that; we know it's not all you) is the marriage designation. We're fine with certain faith forums having restrictions on dialogue, whatever. I'm a little perturbed that marriage has to be a part of any sort of statement of faith (The Nicene and Apostles Creed went on fine without statements about marriage), but it is what it is. I'm certainly okay with Catholics, Lutherans, Southern Baptists, and others opposing SSM. Just like I am okay with certain faith groups opposing interracial marriage. I don't have to agree, whatever, they can believe what they choose to believe.
Where a line has been crossed is in eliminating and removing SSM couples from the marriage forum and forcing the rest of us to make a political statement with our marriage icon. We can't simply be "married" we have to be "male/female married", placing us on some separate pedestal we don't want to be on. It's not about agreeing or disagreeing on the issue of SSM OR about whether or not individual forums will be permitted to discuss the issue in a positive light. It's about deciding for ALL of us, in a space that is shared (the marriage forum), despite several denominations (PCUSA, LCA, Episcopal, UCC) affirming, others wrestling with the issue. Which means Christ-centered, affirming gay Christians may come on to this forum seeking Christ-centered fellowship and marriage advice, which they are not permitted to receive because the administrators have decided for ALL of us that NONE of us are permitted to be in Holy Conversation with them in the marriage forum. (Omitting us as well as we don't want to be placed on the "Male/Female Married" pedestal).
In fact, it would even be okay (even if still an overreach and unnecessary) to maintain some sort of official stance against SSM but permit SSM couples to discuss their faith and their marriage openly if they wished to do so.
An atheist couple can (and do) talk in the marriage forum, as can wiccan couples, and they SHOULD be able to. Couples dealing with divorce, affairs, inappropriate contentography addictions, I've seen discussions about 'swinging' and other such ideologies, couples where one or both are previously divorced; an endless supply of couples who someone, somewhere on this forum opposed their marriage; but they are allowed to participate, (as they should be). Drawing this line on homosexuality alone is a reactionary approach to controversy in American politics, it's fear based, and it's inconsistent with what is normally an open policy elsewhere on other issues. It's inconsistent with this forums policies on all other faith traditions, sins, and theological issues. Where's the "M/F married formerly divorced" option so we can exclude them? "M/F Married, have been involved in an affair"? Again, probably half or more of those folks posting in the marriage forum have a marriage that would be forbidden in at least one of the denominational forums (Roman Catholics viewing all non-Catholic marriages as void is a great example). So why is THAT the line?
There's the question that isn't getting answered. Why is THAT the line that's drawn? Why is it that any married male and female can participate no matter what, provided a penis and vagina are involved, no matter what the circumstance, faith tradition, lack of faith, prior marital action, etc., but not a same sex couple?