Again:
Luke 14:26 If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters yes, even his own life he cannot be my disciple
The quotes are not working so I am copy pasting.... sorry.
We already went through here before, did you notice the part about
"even his own life"?all of it is about hating the worldly sinfully things, not only others but also yourself.
Finally you agree is a physical sword. And Jesus was clear here:
Matthew 10:34
I came not to send peace, but a sword.
Luke 22:36
if you don't have a sword, sell your cloak and buy one.
You are confused here. In Matt 10:34, the sword is a divine sword that cuts sin (so sword vs peace), and Luke 22:36 is a physical sword, where the disciples produced 2, and Jesus later prohibited of using them.
The Gospel is very consistent in its message, "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'"
And Jesus give clear examples who is your neighbor:
30 In reply Jesus said: A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii[
e] and gave them to the innkeeper. Look after him, he said, and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.
36 Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?
37 The expert in the law replied, The one who had mercy on him.
Jesus told him, Go and do likewise.