I have a squish with a Muslim girl

EnemyOfReason · Nov 16, 2014

Yes the title is correct!
I am insanely in love with an adorable little Muslimah in my math class. She has the cutest and most soft voice I have ever heard. Super pale skin that just reminds me of Enrique Simonet's El Juicio de Paris. I don't fall in love and I never have but this girl just bugs me because she is so innocent and sweet. On top of this she is a hijabi and modest girls are a bit of a turn-on (or whatever us asexuals call it) for me personally ^_^

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I would never have a chance in Hell, Hades, or anything above at getting to know her but I can dream can't I?

r035198x · Nov 16, 2014

EnemyOfReason said:
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I would never have a chance in Hell, Hades, or anything above at getting to know her..

Why not?

EnemyOfReason · Nov 17, 2014

r035198x said:
Why not?

I am about the most unsocial person on earth. I also could not get entangled with the religious, ethical and logical conundrums that would arise from this either. My dreams are pleasant but reality is awful

Gnarwhal · Nov 17, 2014

EnemyOfReason said:
Yes the title is correct!
I am insanely in love with an adorable little Muslimah in my math class. She has the cutest and most soft voice I have ever heard. Super pale skin that just reminds me of Enrique Simonet's El Juicio de Paris. I don't fall in love and I never have but this girl just bugs me because she is so innocent and sweet. On top of this she is a hijabi and modest girls are a bit of a turn-on (or whatever us asexuals call it) for me personally .
I would never have a chance in Hell, Hades, or anything above at getting to know her but I can dream can't I?

Why not just cast it all to chance and ask her "what's up"? Roll the dice bro.

sundewgrower · Nov 17, 2014

Nothing bad will happen by talking to her, she might take notice since (depending on where you live) she might not get much attention. Just enjoy talking to somebody different and remember it won't hurt to talk to her.
Different people that turn others off due to cultural differences can be worth while if you're willing to overlook or understand them.

youngthomas · Nov 17, 2014

You'll beat yourself up forever if you don't give it a chance. Don't be that guy who never goes after the girl. good luck!

sundewgrower · Nov 17, 2014

That's what my father said to me recently is that if you don't try you'll beat yourself up more than if you don't try... Recently I asked a girl when she was having lunch with her mother about keeping in contact and seeing what happens as I was flying back to the states. Doing that pushed me but in the end it was easy and I over rated how hard it would be.. Now it didn't work out in the end and I was bummed out for a bit. However, I'm happy I gave it a shot as every time you do it the next time is easier, and there is nothing wrong with asking.

William67 · Nov 17, 2014

I dont want to rain on anyone's fantasy, but, have any of you heard of honor killings? They do this sometimes if a muslim girl dates outside of her religion.

r035198x · Nov 17, 2014

If you know for sure what her beliefs are and that they won't work with you then sorry about it all.

Gnarwhal · Nov 17, 2014

William67 said:
I dont want to rain on anyone's fantasy, but, have any of you heard of honor killings? They do this sometimes if a muslim girl dates outside of her religion.

That's assuming her family lives outside of America and she would be forced to return to them at any point. The five incidents that have occurred in the U.S. within the past 25 years have been uniformly condemned by American Muslims, and obviously they're not taken lightly by American judicial forces either.

I think it's more or less been squashed. If this girl has any genuine fear for her life then she simply won't allow a relationship to advance beyond friendship (but should probably also report her danger to the authorities, regardless).

RobertMerton · Nov 17, 2014

becareful if she has any brothers.

but yeah some muslim girls are very pretty.

m.a.r.X · Nov 17, 2014

Tread c.a.r.ef.u.l.l.y

blackribbon · Nov 17, 2014

LOVE??? If you are calling like it is, then you can't call it love...it is lust or infactuation...love requires you get to actually KNOW the girl.

EnemyOfReason · Nov 17, 2014

William67 said:
I dont want to rain on anyone's fantasy, but, have any of you heard of honor killings? They do this sometimes if a muslim girl dates outside of her religion.

This is due to culture not religion. You should educate yourself. I said she had skin as pale as the goddess Paris which implies she is white not Pakistani our Indian.

EnemyOfReason · Nov 17, 2014

blackribbon said:
LOVE??? If you are calling like it is, then you can't call it love...it is lust or infactuation...love requires you get to actually KNOW the girl.

Hmm, i am aromatic and strongly asexual so lust and infatuation are not of my feelings. I do not hold interest in people and their lives yet alone their looks, personalities or interests. I make an exception with this one girl though.

William67 · Nov 17, 2014

EnemyOfReason said:
This is due to culture not religion. You should educate yourself. I said she had skin as pale as the goddess Paris which implies she is white not Pakistani our Indian.

Catherine Bell, who was on the old TV show JAG, is Iranian. The people of the middle east come in all shades, including redhair and blue eyes.

ReesePiece23 · Nov 17, 2014

From my experience (a Hindu girl in my case) I'd say only go after her, if you can come to terms with the fact that you might be on borrowed time. DON'T let her parents find out, and be EXTREMELY careful - if you know what I mean? An 'accident' could cost you both severely.

If there's a chance that you're going to fall madly in love with her, then you need to acknowledge this risk, when making your decision, and ask yourself if you're willing to pay the price of the inevitable heart break that will follow if you're forced apart.

EnemyOfReason · Nov 17, 2014

William67 said:
Catherine Bell, who was on the old TV show JAG, is Iranian. The people of the middle east come in all shades, including redhair and blue eyes.

I was thinking about this earlier. Iranian are generally able to pass for white a lot of times. I know so because for years I had no clue that the guy who works at my local gas station was Iranian. I am very good with ethnicity and I am still betting on white though

. If she is Iranian or possible Syrian I will be so getting her number by tommorrow

EnemyOfReason · Nov 17, 2014

ReesePiece23 said:
From my experience (a Hindu girl in my case) I'd say only go after her, if you can come to terms with the fact that you might be on borrowed time. DON'T let her parents find out, and be EXTREMELY careful - if you know what I mean? An 'accident' could cost you both severely.

If there's a chance that you're going to fall madly in love with her, then you need to acknowledge this risk, when making your decision, and ask yourself if you're willing to pay the price of the inevitable heart break that will follow if you're forced apart.

you don't know me well then!
I will probably forget her as I do most people. I am by no means an optimist and I know for a fact I will never see her for very long even if I did know her.

But I soooo wanna try this out but I am a coward

Cearbhall · Nov 17, 2014

EnemyOfReason said:
I am about the most unsocial person on earth. I also could not get entangled with the religious, ethical and logical conundrums that would arise from this either. My dreams are pleasant but reality is awful

Are you just looking for friendship? I don't see why this would be an issue.

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