How about this for a solution. We'll let the Christians form a DOJ Family Research Council group and send out an email with suggestions on how to deal with homosexual coworkers.
It is the job of any supervisor to make their subordinates feel welcome and valued in the workplace. It's good for morale. That is not special treatment, it's the norm.
If I tell my boss I'm Irish we talk all sorts of shamrockery. If I tell my boss I'm married he asks about my kids. If I tell my boss that my partner Jim and I saw a great movie, this brochure suggests he respond just as if I'd said my wife Jen and I saw a great movie. It's common sense leadership advice. The brochure also advises against making gay jokes in the men's room, among other things.
The point of these types of things is that no group should get special treatment in the workplace. The problem is that for many years the special treatment that many minority groups have received in the workplace has been very negative; efforts like this push toward an environment where everyone in the workplace is judged by their merits.
True, but not many get singled out for special preferential treatment.
And what? If he says "Ok, whatever rocks your boat", or nothing at all, he should be fired?
"DOJ employees were emailed a brochure called "LGBT Inclusion at Work: "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Managers."
Among the directives is an order for workers to vocally affirm homosexuality.
"Dont judge or remain silent," the brochure read. "Silence will be interpreted as disapproval."They were also told to post "DOJ Pride" stickers in their office to indicate "that it is a safe place."
One gay DOJ employee is quoted in the directive;
"Silence seems like disapproval. Theres still an atmosphere of LGBT issues not being appropriate for the workplace (particularly for transgender people), or that people who bring it up are trying to rock the boat."Mat Staver, founder of Liberty Counsel, said every American should be outraged by the DOJ orders.
"This administration is pushing the most radical, immoral agenda on the American people," Staver said. "Christians are not merely required to shut up, but now they are being coerced to embrace immorality that goes against their sincerely held religious beliefs."Barber told Fox News.
"They (DOJ leaders) have said if you are uncomfortable with a man in a skirt using the facilities then tough you need to get over it,"Workers were also told to use "inclusive" words like partner or significant other rather than traditional terms like husband or wife. They were also told to use a transgender persons chosen name and the pronoun that is consistent with the persons self-identified gender.
DOJ employees were told to stop using phrases like "gay lifestyle" or "sexual preference" because those words are "considered by many as offensive."
http://townhall.com/columnists/toddstarnes/2013/05/28/doj-tells-employees-to-verbally-affirm-homosexuality-n1607910/page/full
What does a persons sexuality [should be private] have to do with the mission and purpose of the Department of Justice and how does diverting government resources and time to mandating endorsment of this lifestyle have anything to do with the agencies original charter?
The interesting thing about this is that they seemingly want gay employees to be treated as anyone else regardless if they act like anyone else. Further, when alone together, guys will often expound on their weekend conquests. Should this now include gay encounters?
True, but nothing in that brochure is special treatment. A manager should be concerned if any of his employees sees the workplace as hostile and ensuring that it isn't is in no way special treatment.Agreed: Negative special treatment should be combatted. But not by introducing positive special treatment. If equality is the goal, then promoting one group over others is immoral.
Agreed. But unlike efforts like this that ensure equitable treatment for all employees, affirmative action was always meant to be a temporary measure.Same with "affirmative action". It's racist discrimination, pure and simple.
Don't speak for all Christians. Most are not right wing fundamentalists. And if they have a problem with it, they can choose a more appropriate lifestyle instead of being Fundamentalist Christians.Trouble is that the Christian employees no longer feel welcome and valued. The DOJ has created a hostile work environment for them
Agreed. But unlike efforts like this that ensure equitable treatment for all employees, affirmative action was always meant to be a temporary measure.
I've worked in an office environment for 15 years and I have heard someone talking about a weekend conquest exactly 0 times. Contrary to what you see on TV and movies about offices people who work in office don't share the gritty details of their lives. In fact, in most offices, such conversations would be seen as creating a hostile work environment.Further, when alone together, guys will often expound on their weekend conquests. Should this now include gay encounters?
Note that I put the word "meant" in past tense. Affirmative Action has been all but phased out for some time now.Meant, schment.
Not many Western countries openly discriminate based on skincolor. America, which is otherwise a shining beacon of freedom and democracy, stands alone there.
I've worked in an office environment for 15 years and I have heard someone talking about a weekend conquest exactly 0 times. Contrary to what you see on TV and movies about offices people who work in office don't share the gritty details of their lives. In fact, in most offices, such conversations would be seen as creating a hostile work environment.
Note that I put the word "meant" in past tense. Affirmative Action has been all but phased out for some time now.
Conversatons of a sexual nature are seen as creating a hostile work environment regardless of who is involved. It could be hostile to woman, but it could also be hostile to a puritanical Christian man.(bolding mine)
Let me guess: Because women would feel "threatened" by it?
So homosexuals get to tell Christians how to respond to homosexuals, and homosexuals get to tell other homosexuals how to respond to Christians? Oh yeah, that makes sense.That wouldn't actually be the same,
You'd have to have the DoJ pride sending out a brochure on how to treat Christians.. aka, not what they've done.
Conversatons of a sexual nature are seen as creating a hostile work environment regardless of who is involved. It could be hostile to woman, but it could also be hostile to a puritanical Christian man.
Right from your quote:
"Don't judge or remain silent. Silence will be interpreted as disapproval."
Exactly as I said
So homosexuals get to tell Christians how to respond to homosexuals, and homosexuals get to tell other homosexuals how to respond to Christians? Oh yeah, that makes sense.
But that's the thing, you shouldn't have had to walk away. The very fact that you were uncomfortable enough to feel the need to walk away is an example of a hostile workplace. If you chose not to report the action that's your prerogotive, but you were well within your rights to do so. Often times things are reported without mentioning names at which point a reminder is sent to all about appropriate office converstations.I've had that happen more than once. You know what the solution is?
WALK AWAY - simply order your feet to move you away from the conversation that makes you uncomfortable. It's that easy.
How about this for a solution. We'll let the Christians form a DOJ Family Research Council group and send out an email with suggestions on how to deal with homosexual coworkers.