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Paulie079
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Good points. I was misspeaking. However, the last thing you said is indicative of what I meant to say - Jesus deliberately went where he would be tempted in order to overcome it. That's a cue: overcoming temptation does not mean running away from it. It means being equipped with God's Word and Spirit sufficiently to face temptation without fear, knowing that we will not give in to it. After all, that's what Christ did, and we are meant to follow Him "from glory unto glory", are we not? What glory is there in building yourself into a cage to ward off temptation, when in Christ we are more than conquerors? That's not a prescription to seek out temptation, but it certainly is a calling not to fear it.
I know several alcoholics who now drink in moderation because they believe that to abstain entirely would be a concession to their weakness. None of them have been drunk for years. Significantly, all of them are Christians. Now, they did not go straight from being drunks to being able to drink responsibly. It was a process, and while it was going on they did NOT drink. But over time they did get to the point where they could enjoy a drink or two in fellowship without fear of returning to drunkenness.
Yes it is that, but not only that. Not being able to do so would be a lack of freedom, by definition. But being able to do it does not equate to actually doing it. Freedom in Christ also entails having the wisdom not to do things that are not edifying, even if they are not sinful either.
Which brings me to a clarification of something Rose mentioned - I do not mean to suggest that people should make out with their boy/girlfriends. But that's not what is being discussed here. What is being discussed is refraining altogether from kissing - an expression of affection so basic that it is even a prescribed greeting in the Bible. I maintain that if one cannot kiss someone else at all without being tempted to sin, then there is a weakness there that needs to be addressed; not catered to, but conquered. I believe God would count it as righteousness if such a person refrained from kissing, but He certainly does not wish us to be so bound up by our temptations. Simply not sinning is just barely scraping by. Freedom is so much more than that.
This always happens to me--I want to rep a post, but what I want to say is too long for the rep haha. I've learned over the past several years that in just about any issue, a balance exists that tends to be the most fair and accurate, but it can be so hard to articulate that balance because usually you end up leaning towards one extreme or the other, and then you find yourself needing to swing back the other way in order to represent your viewpoint accurately. My impression is that this is what you're trying to do here and I appreciate this post because it helps me better understand what you're saying, and I agree with you. It's not good to avoid certain things for fear of being tempted, nor is it good to be in a place where temptation is constantly an issue.
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